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Sorry to hear about your son J.D. on top of everything else. I'm with Guid. If you know your right, stay with it. Early 20's is tough on some kids. Hopefully he'll open up soon, and the two of you can talk it out.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Sunday, December 05, 2010 2:52:42 PM)| |  | J.D. DIAMOND wrote: | | Thanks Joe and Guido,reading your posts is very theraputic and this isn't the first animal I've lost,but it doesn't get any easier as you guys know. I'm not one to mope around and be depressed but I'm more agitated than anything and I felt that my posting on a daily basis would end up everything negative and I'm already negative enough so just thought it would be best if I post when I have something worthy to contribute. Animals are awsome,they are magical and sacred and I'm glad that I am one who appreciates and enjoys animals,always have.
Ontop of everything else,inbetween us getting robbed and losing my animal, my son(20 years old )and I got into a hum dinger of an argument 2 weeks ago and now he says he hates my guts and wishes I wasn't his father,I'm the worst father there ever was and says he will never speak to me or see me again blah blah blah and now he claims I no longer have a son right along with I no longer have a sister as I haven't talked to my sister in over 2 years.....I'll spare you the "drama' but he has his head so far up his ass its not even funny. "SIGH". What a year huh?
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| [hellrider 31038] Sunday, December 05, 2010 5:05:23 PM | |
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I AM MOST DEFINATLY NO MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANYONE HERE COOOMMMAAANNNNDDDDEEEERRRRR WOULD YOU LIKE SOME SPIKES IN YOUR FACE.LOL
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Saturday, December 04, 2010 9:35:41 PM)
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Spapad,Guido,Hot Rockin' Metal Godess and Becks...thanks guys for your support. Animals are very sacred to me personally and to you guys as well,and not to put him before you guys but especially Guido as I know his passion for animals as the posts I've read throughout the years.
He was my 14 year old cat,most people wouldn't give a shit and just throw it away and get a new one attitide,but not me. I'm back up and running(my computer) but I probably won't feel like posting a whole lot these next few weeks. I am a strong individual but there has always been a special place in my heart for animals,and losing one no matter how old they are stings pretty bad. Whats even sader is that my other animal keeps looking for him and he isn't coming home. That is some sad stuff to watch.
I don't have much to say when these things happen,so I'll come around when my spirits have been lifted a little. However we are getting a German Shepherd puppie in January,this was planned a few months ago,then when we got ripped off the plan can't get here quick enough. Got a new ADT sucurity system monitored by ADT and put up bars on 4 windows in my back yard,and now will have a dog and already have the beware of dog signs up.
Dispite what MANY of people have said about this forum,this place is the best place on the internet,and the main people here are amongst the best people and friends to ever have online. The trouble makers fall by the way side and don't count as "anything". They can't take away what we have all established here,and its cool to hear your friends give a shit about whats going on with your personal life.
A huge thanks to all of you for supporting my frustrations and a huge thank you to HELLRIDER ....this guy offered to "send me some $money" just because I got ripped off. To you Hellrider, Victoria and I thank you from the bottom of our hearts,but as I PMed you,we could never accept money from you or anybody else but are extremely humbled and greatful you thought about us. Hellrider you have a heart of gold and are definately one of if not the most important member to post here,what a guy you are my friend.
Thanks guys,I'm back now but again I'll post when my spirits are lifted a little more. You guys rock. Edited at: Saturday, December 04, 2010 9:41:14 PM |
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| [guidogodoy] Sunday, December 05, 2010 3:53:59 PM | |
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Well, not knowing the specifics of the situation between you and your son I'd say that you should always "stick to your north" and do what you feel is right in all matters concerning him. If it feels wrong, it is. Plain and simple. You gave his age: +/-20. He'll hate you for certain reasons. Stand your ground about what you feel as right. If it continues, it does. 'Nuff said.
"Whatta year." Enough said there as well. Seems to be going around. Cuídate, compadre.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Sunday, December 05, 2010 2:52:42 PM)| | | J.D. DIAMOND wrote: | | Thanks Joe and Guido,reading your posts is very theraputic and this isn't the first animal I've lost,but it doesn't get any easier as you guys know. I'm not one to mope around and be depressed but I'm more agitated than anything and I felt that my posting on a daily basis would end up everything negative and I'm already negative enough so just thought it would be best if I post when I have something worthy to contribute. Animals are awsome,they are magical and sacred and I'm glad that I am one who appreciates and enjoys animals,always have.
Ontop of everything else,inbetween us getting robbed and losing my animal, my son(20 years old )and I got into a hum dinger of an argument 2 weeks ago and now he says he hates my guts and wishes I wasn't his father,I'm the worst father there ever was and says he will never speak to me or see me again blah blah blah and now he claims I no longer have a son right along with I no longer have a sister as I haven't talked to my sister in over 2 years.....I'll spare you the "drama' but he has his head so far up his ass its not even funny. "SIGH". What a year huh?
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| [J.D. DIAMOND] Sunday, December 05, 2010 2:52:42 PM | |
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Thanks Joe and Guido,reading your posts is very theraputic and this isn't the first animal I've lost,but it doesn't get any easier as you guys know. I'm not one to mope around and be depressed but I'm more agitated than anything and I felt that my posting on a daily basis would end up everything negative and I'm already negative enough so just thought it would be best if I post when I have something worthy to contribute. Animals are awsome,they are magical and sacred and I'm glad that I am one who appreciates and enjoys animals,always have.
Ontop of everything else,inbetween us getting robbed and losing my animal, my son(20 years old )and I got into a hum dinger of an argument 2 weeks ago and now he says he hates my guts and wishes I wasn't his father,I'm the worst father there ever was and says he will never speak to me or see me again blah blah blah and now he claims I no longer have a son right along with I no longer have a sister as I haven't talked to my sister in over 2 years.....I'll spare you the "drama' but he has his head so far up his ass its not even funny. "SIGH". What a year huh?
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| [joedraper] Sunday, December 05, 2010 5:29:43 AM | |
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J.D. This year has been so tough on a lot of us. I'm so sorry you have to end it with the loss of your faithful companion. You can never replace them and it's funny how some poeple think that you just can. It took me almost two years to open my heart to another cat. I'm glad I left the mourning phase to take its course because it really helped the grief proccess but having a new little guy around really cheered up Jethro, our 11 year old cat. They creep into our hearts and I could never ever imagine my life without one of my beloved pets. Each one has been so special to me and I've truly loved and felt loved by them.
I know you're hurting, remember the good 14 years that you had together and let the healing process run its course.
In my thoughts.
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[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Saturday, December 04, 2010 6:58:17 PM)| | | J.D. DIAMOND wrote: | | Hey guys. I'll be back here full swing in a few,I shut off my internet and cable,so I could save approx.$150.00 bucks,I probably didn't need to do it....well I know I didn't "need" to do it,but I am a money saver and was and still am pissed off about getting ripped off and too pissed off to post here. At least I saved 150 bucks for one month. They didn't take much,none of our CDs or none of my music equiptment,just some cash and a few things but we got extremely lucky.It could of been 100 times worse.
Today,I've lost one of my animals.It was his time to go but as much of an animal person I am,it really stings to say the least. My heart is sunk,but to me animals are much sacred than people are. I had him for 14 years and enjoyed every minute with him. It sucks losing an animal and I have no idea of what you guys think I'm made of but I'm here to tell ya that my heart is broken,thats no lie. Just buried him in the back yard which was tough,but needed to be done. I'm not here to get any sympathy from anyone,and not here to draw attention,just a place to vent our frustrations out and to share frustrating events with friends I've had for 6 years and new friends too. Thanks guys and again I'll be back here in a few weeks.
J.D.
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| [guidogodoy] Sunday, December 05, 2010 5:09:03 AM | |
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"Throw it away?!?" <== to anyone who thinks that way...my only hope for the idiots that think this way: that your "gatekeeper" in the afterlife is an animal.
Peace, JD, and my most sincere condolences.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Saturday, December 04, 2010 9:35:41 PM)| | | J.D. DIAMOND wrote: | | Spapad,Guido,Hot Rockin' Metal Godess and Becks...thanks guys for your support. Animals are very sacred to me personally and to you guys as well,and not to put him before you guys but especially Guido as I know his passion for animals as the posts I've read throughout the years.
He was my 14 year old cat,most people wouldn't give a shit and just throw it away and get a new one attitide,but not me. I'm back up and running(my computer) but I probably won't feel like posting a whole lot these next few weeks. I am a strong individual but there has always been a special place in my heart for animals,and losing one no matter how old they are stings pretty bad. Whats even sader is that my other animal keeps looking for him and he isn't coming home. That is some sad stuff to watch.
I don't have much to say when these things happen,so I'll come around when my spirits have been lifted a little. However we are getting a German Shepherd puppie in January,this was planned a few months ago,then when we got ripped off the plan can't get here quick enough. Got a new ADT sucurity system monitored by ADT and put up bars on 4 windows in my back yard,and now will have a dog and already have the beware of dog signs up.
Dispite what MANY of people have said about this forum,this place is the best place on the internet,and the main people here are amongst the best people and friends to ever have online. The trouble makers fall by the way side and don't count as "anything". They can't take away what we have all established here,and its cool to hear your friends give a shit about whats going on with your personal life.
A huge thanks to all of you for supporting my frustrations and a huge thank you to HELLRIDER ....this guy offered to "send me some $money" just because I got ripped off. To you Hellrider, Victoria and I thank you from the bottom of our hearts,but as I PMed you,we could never accept money from you or anybody else but are extremely humbled and greatful you thought about us. Hellrider you have a heart of gold and are definately one of if not the most important member to post here,what a guy you are my friend.
Thanks guys,I'm back now but again I'll post when my spirits are lifted a little more. You guys rock.
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Spapad,Guido,Hot Rockin' Metal Godess and Becks...thanks guys for your support. Animals are very sacred to me personally and to you guys as well,and not to put him before you guys but especially Guido as I know his passion for animals as the posts I've read throughout the years.
He was my 14 year old cat,most people wouldn't give a shit and just throw it away and get a new one attitide,but not me. I'm back up and running(my computer) but I probably won't feel like posting a whole lot these next few weeks. I am a strong individual but there has always been a special place in my heart for animals,and losing one no matter how old they are stings pretty bad. Whats even sader is that my other animal keeps looking for him and he isn't coming home. That is some sad stuff to watch.
I don't have much to say when these things happen,so I'll come around when my spirits have been lifted a little. However we are getting a German Shepherd puppie in January,this was planned a few months ago,then when we got ripped off the plan can't get here quick enough. Got a new ADT sucurity system monitored by ADT and put up bars on 4 windows in my back yard,and now will have a dog and already have the beware of dog signs up.
Dispite what MANY of people have said about this forum,this place is the best place on the internet,and the main people here are amongst the best people and friends to ever have online. The trouble makers fall by the way side and don't count as "anything". They can't take away what we have all established here,and its cool to hear your friends give a shit about whats going on with your personal life.
A huge thanks to all of you for supporting my frustrations and a huge thank you to HELLRIDER ....this guy offered to "send me some $money" just because I got ripped off. To you Hellrider, Victoria and I thank you from the bottom of our hearts,but as I PMed you,we could never accept money from you or anybody else but are extremely humbled and greatful you thought about us. Hellrider you have a heart of gold and are definately one of if not the most important member to post here,what a guy you are my friend.
Thanks guys,I'm back now but again I'll post when my spirits are lifted a little more. You guys rock.
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Good to see you again JD, I am glad the thieves didn't take anything too major, but still, what bastards! And I am so so sorry about your pet, I know what it's like to lose a loved furry family member, it's awful.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by spapad from Saturday, December 04, 2010 7:30:28 PM)| | | spapad wrote: | | Good to see you again J.D., sorry it is on a bad note.
I grieved just as much for my Bella when she died of seizures at the age of 3 as I did for my Maxwell who died of chrons disease at age 13. It's never easy and they are so much a part of the family that it is so very painfull.
My thoughts are with you and Victoria, love to you both. (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Saturday, December 04, 2010 6:58:17 PM)
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Hey guys. I'll be back here full swing in a few,I shut off my internet and cable,so I could save approx.$150.00 bucks,I probably didn't need to do it....well I know I didn't "need" to do it,but I am a money saver and was and still am pissed off about getting ripped off and too pissed off to post here. At least I saved 150 bucks for one month. They didn't take much,none of our CDs or none of my music equiptment,just some cash and a few things but we got extremely lucky.It could of been 100 times worse.
Today,I've lost one of my animals.It was his time to go but as much of an animal person I am,it really stings to say the least. My heart is sunk,but to me animals are much sacred than people are. I had him for 14 years and enjoyed every minute with him. It sucks losing an animal and I have no idea of what you guys think I'm made of but I'm here to tell ya that my heart is broken,thats no lie. Just buried him in the back yard which was tough,but needed to be done. I'm not here to get any sympathy from anyone,and not here to draw attention,just a place to vent our frustrations out and to share frustrating events with friends I've had for 6 years and new friends too. Thanks guys and again I'll be back here in a few weeks.
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| [HOT ROCKIN' METAL GODDESS] Saturday, December 04, 2010 8:47:33 PM | |
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Great to see you again J.D. I'm glad that you were lucky and they didn't take much. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I know how much you love animals and I know this must be so very hard. Know that he loved you just as much and had a wonderful life because of all the love that you gave him. He was a part of your family and that is a gift that many animals never get. I wish you and Victoria all the best.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Saturday, December 04, 2010 6:58:17 PM)| | | J.D. DIAMOND wrote: | | Hey guys. I'll be back here full swing in a few,I shut off my internet and cable,so I could save approx.$150.00 bucks,I probably didn't need to do it....well I know I didn't "need" to do it,but I am a money saver and was and still am pissed off about getting ripped off and too pissed off to post here. At least I saved 150 bucks for one month. They didn't take much,none of our CDs or none of my music equiptment,just some cash and a few things but we got extremely lucky.It could of been 100 times worse.
Today,I've lost one of my animals.It was his time to go but as much of an animal person I am,it really stings to say the least. My heart is sunk,but to me animals are much sacred than people are. I had him for 14 years and enjoyed every minute with him. It sucks losing an animal and I have no idea of what you guys think I'm made of but I'm here to tell ya that my heart is broken,thats no lie. Just buried him in the back yard which was tough,but needed to be done. I'm not here to get any sympathy from anyone,and not here to draw attention,just a place to vent our frustrations out and to share frustrating events with friends I've had for 6 years and new friends too. Thanks guys and again I'll be back here in a few weeks.
J.D.
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| [guidogodoy] Saturday, December 04, 2010 8:06:35 PM | |
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Good to hear from you, bro. You know that I am an animal lover and loathe any bastard that (has) had the lack of heart to belittle the death of a rat, bird, what have you. What animal, I would sincerely ask but know that it doesn't matter. Those idiots (THAT IDIOT HERE) has no soul. Human or not, compassion is not something you learn. Know that my thoughts are with you.
Glad to hear that your house wasn't completely gutted and we await your triumphant return, Commander.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Saturday, December 04, 2010 6:58:17 PM)| | | J.D. DIAMOND wrote: | | Hey guys. I'll be back here full swing in a few,I shut off my internet and cable,so I could save approx.$150.00 bucks,I probably didn't need to do it....well I know I didn't "need" to do it,but I am a money saver and was and still am pissed off about getting ripped off and too pissed off to post here. At least I saved 150 bucks for one month. They didn't take much,none of our CDs or none of my music equiptment,just some cash and a few things but we got extremely lucky.It could of been 100 times worse.
Today,I've lost one of my animals.It was his time to go but as much of an animal person I am,it really stings to say the least. My heart is sunk,but to me animals are much sacred than people are. I had him for 14 years and enjoyed every minute with him. It sucks losing an animal and I have no idea of what you guys think I'm made of but I'm here to tell ya that my heart is broken,thats no lie. Just buried him in the back yard which was tough,but needed to be done. I'm not here to get any sympathy from anyone,and not here to draw attention,just a place to vent our frustrations out and to share frustrating events with friends I've had for 6 years and new friends too. Thanks guys and again I'll be back here in a few weeks.
J.D.
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| [spapad] Saturday, December 04, 2010 7:30:28 PM | |
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Good to see you again J.D., sorry it is on a bad note.
I grieved just as much for my Bella when she died of seizures at the age of 3 as I did for my Maxwell who died of chrons disease at age 13. It's never easy and they are so much a part of the family that it is so very painfull.
My thoughts are with you and Victoria, love to you both. [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Saturday, December 04, 2010 6:58:17 PM)
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Hey guys. I'll be back here full swing in a few,I shut off my internet and cable,so I could save approx.$150.00 bucks,I probably didn't need to do it....well I know I didn't "need" to do it,but I am a money saver and was and still am pissed off about getting ripped off and too pissed off to post here. At least I saved 150 bucks for one month. They didn't take much,none of our CDs or none of my music equiptment,just some cash and a few things but we got extremely lucky.It could of been 100 times worse.
Today,I've lost one of my animals.It was his time to go but as much of an animal person I am,it really stings to say the least. My heart is sunk,but to me animals are much sacred than people are. I had him for 14 years and enjoyed every minute with him. It sucks losing an animal and I have no idea of what you guys think I'm made of but I'm here to tell ya that my heart is broken,thats no lie. Just buried him in the back yard which was tough,but needed to be done. I'm not here to get any sympathy from anyone,and not here to draw attention,just a place to vent our frustrations out and to share frustrating events with friends I've had for 6 years and new friends too. Thanks guys and again I'll be back here in a few weeks.
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Hey guys. I'll be back here full swing in a few,I shut off my internet and cable,so I could save approx.$150.00 bucks,I probably didn't need to do it....well I know I didn't "need" to do it,but I am a money saver and was and still am pissed off about getting ripped off and too pissed off to post here. At least I saved 150 bucks for one month. They didn't take much,none of our CDs or none of my music equiptment,just some cash and a few things but we got extremely lucky.It could of been 100 times worse.
Today,I've lost one of my animals.It was his time to go but as much of an animal person I am,it really stings to say the least. My heart is sunk,but to me animals are much sacred than people are. I had him for 14 years and enjoyed every minute with him. It sucks losing an animal and I have no idea of what you guys think I'm made of but I'm here to tell ya that my heart is broken,thats no lie. Just buried him in the back yard which was tough,but needed to be done. I'm not here to get any sympathy from anyone,and not here to draw attention,just a place to vent our frustrations out and to share frustrating events with friends I've had for 6 years and new friends too. Thanks guys and again I'll be back here in a few weeks.
J.D.
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| [Vaillant 3.0] Friday, December 03, 2010 2:57:31 PM | |
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| [joedraper] Friday, December 03, 2010 11:57:43 AM | |
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No worries.. Sorry they're giving you so much bull... Just stand your ground and don't let them get to you so badly. This world is made up of people who like to cause shit remember that.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Necroticist from Friday, December 03, 2010 10:36:35 AM)| | | Necroticist wrote: | | Hey! if that was directed at you i'd do it in PM....
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| [Necroticist] Friday, December 03, 2010 10:36:35 AM | |
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Hey! if that was directed at you i'd do it in PM....
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by joedraper from Friday, December 03, 2010 10:26:50 AM)| | | joedraper wrote: | | Steve, I'm not wasting time. I can't just do things on my own re chat room I need to get hold of Boltz first. Please don't crap on me when I'm doing the best I can with what I have right now. Just hold on a bit and we'll get it sorted ok?
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Steve, I'm not wasting time. I can't just do things on my own re chat room I need to get hold of Boltz first. Please don't crap on me when I'm doing the best I can with what I have right now. Just hold on a bit and we'll get it sorted ok?
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Necroticist from Friday, December 03, 2010 10:07:40 AM)| | | Necroticist wrote: | | | Timewasters, ppl who say they'll ring at a certain time and don't, & pretty much everyone connected with chatrooms...am just bloody done with it all... |
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