I was raised to not talk about people if they were different from you--but these men -not all men but some men call us names & degrade us to the point that we eat even more due to the hormones& emotions we're going through & we gain even more weight--just because we're heavier doesn't mean we haven't changed --we're still the same person inside where it counts but some men only see the outer package --did you ever wonder why in the "thong thread " there's no overweight gals ??--they all have perky boobs & tight bodies--I used to have perky boobs when I was in my 20's but alas gravity has taken it' s toll --now the only time my boobs are perky is if I 'm doing a headstand & no man is worth me standing on my head [Show/Hide Quoted Message](Quoting Message by kit kat from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:51:24 PM)
kit kat wrote:
Men are sometimes so stupid. I get the same shit. Oh, you're fat. I tell him if you don't like the way I look, then he can just go to hell.
lana wrote:
I can see why he's your ex husband !!--mine calls me waddlecakes --he thinks it's a hoot but it hurts my feelings from time to time--I guess we have to look good for us 1st then the men--but it's hard when the men tell us what we don't want to hear--when us gals say " does this make my butt look bigger ??" -they could /should lie through their teeth & say "no dear --you look just fine as you are "--like we're ever gonna hear that !!
lalouve wrote:
And we worry about it because most men make remarks........like my ex-husband....jeez....I was below 100 pounds and he use to tell me I had too much weight !!!!! I know it's hard to believe, but it IS true !!! (I got mad at him then lolll)
Head banger wrote:
some should wory, but why, its just looks, thats what women worry about!!!!
kit kat wrote:
Believe me so men do!
lana wrote:
HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY !
