Well, you can work on that part later! As long as your safe and comfortable you can do your studies without interruption. Good for you! Don't worry about it. It will all work it'self out over time my friend! Right now, you are doing what is best for you, so that is what is important! Love yourself first, so you may love others. Had I learned that lesson better I wouldn't be in some jams I get into. Lotsa Love Paor! Take care my friend! [Show/Hide Quoted Message](Quoting Message by paorcamp from Saturday, March 28, 2009 12:12:33 AM)
paorcamp wrote:
thanks my friend...it's been a week since I moved out...and I survived...and I also have to say that I'm feeling much better right now...I like this place...my cousin and her husband have treated me very good...and even if I miss mom I don't regret what I've done...I'm calmed again and feeling kind of free maybe...It's kind of quiet this place...not very noisy, and actually I'm comfortable here...so I think everything turned out all right at the end...and I'm feeling good...that's one of the most important parts...and I also have all that I need but a TV connection to the cable service...
spapad wrote:
Paor, That does sound complicated. I hope your doing OK! If you need help, don't be afraid to go home. You can always leave latter if you need to. I hate that your family is making things difficult for you, you don't need that right now. Good luck my friend!
paorcamp wrote:
well...it's kind of complicated to explain...but I'm the only son (in the case of my mom)...I'm the oldest grandson in my family...but there are three cousis older than me in the girls side...and in my house (since my aunts and my mom are single mothers) I was living with some other relatives...most of them moved out...some others came back...and now I left...but I'm just 20, and in this country a 20 year-old boy is still considered a kid....mainly because I'm still studying...that's one of the reasos why they didn't thought I was serious about moving out
paorcamp wrote:
when I wanted to be taken into account as a member of MY family, they just ignored me...when they screwed everything and some others wanted to be taken into account before making the wrong choice they ignored us...when I said that I was moving out because they actually made the wrong choice they laughed at me!!!...and now that I'm out of there they're asking me to go back and to forgive them....they say that maybe I'm over-reacting and that I won't be strong enough to get over this...I'm sorry but there's no turning back, I'll do my best to make this go as good as it should; and finally, you're begging me to go back...so, who's not being able to get over it???
