I will try to be, although I usually cry at the drop of a hat. If I go there, I will cry. I have never been able to avoid that. I'm too empathetic for my own good.
If I cry in front of him now it would not be right. I'm thinking I wont go till tomorrow. I will be a mess tonight. Too close to me right now. Is that wrong? [Show/Hide Quoted Message](Quoting Message by Phantom A6 from Saturday, April 25, 2009 1:43:31 PM)
Phantom A6 wrote:
That's normal, but don't show him your fears. Sometimes daddys little princesses have to be brave girls.
spapad wrote:
I will do that. I just hurt right now. I fear for him.
Phantom A6 wrote:
I know sweetie. All you can do (and that's a lot) is to be there for him, in your thoughts too. Show him your love and how much you need him.
spapad wrote:
Thank you Michael! I just want him to be better, he was just fine yesterday! It just came on him all of a sudden. He called Flora last night to plan to go have dinner with his older grandchildren at Virginia Tech today. Very suprsing.
Phantom A6 wrote:
Hi sweetie, big hugs from me for you too.
spapad wrote:
Hi Koen, my adventures for the day have ground to a halt. My father is in hospital with what appears to be, after hours being there, a small intestinal blockage. He will be held there till Tomorrow or Monday depending on how long it takes to completely empty his intestines. He will have surgery.
I wouldn't be so worried, except for the fact he had colorectal cancer about ten years ago, and now I'm scared. Nothing I can do, but wait.
ShadowVT wrote:
hellow Spapad xxxXXXXxxxx big hug
spapad wrote:
Anyone in right now? I could really use a friend to talk to.
