That's the spirit Spapad, crying helps dont hold it back but if you go to him be strong and support him in this darkend hour.
anayway let's put on the music and can i get ya something spapad dear xxxxx
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by spapad from Saturday, April 25, 2009 2:29:01 PM)| |  | spapad wrote: | | Thank you Michael and Koen. I need to get a grip and at least be happy for now, there is nothing I can do, so why cry like I have been. Got to get a positive attitude, and be ready tomorrow morning to take Flora with me.
Let's talk about anything! Saddle up to the bar and just shoot the shit! I'm ready now.
| | | Phantom A6 wrote: | | Hey, don't mention it! We're friends and you was there for me last year too. Anytime again sweetie! Anytime!
| | | spapad wrote: | | I don't think I'm going to tell Flora about some of this, because she does not need to worry. I need to straighten up and act right, she is napping right now, but I cant be falling apart on her. She adores her Pawpaw, she would be very upset to know this. I will try to downplay it until we find out what is really going on.
Thank you Michael, for being there for me, I do appriciate it so very much!
| | | Phantom A6 wrote: | | No sweetie, that's not wrong. Sometimes it's strange 'Cause to cry and show tears is one way of us to tell how much we love special persons (family, good friends and so on). Ya, tonight you're a mess because of your fear, but tomorrow you're a little bit stronger.
| | | spapad wrote: | | I will try to be, although I usually cry at the drop of a hat. If I go there, I will cry. I have never been able to avoid that. I'm too empathetic for my own good.
If I cry in front of him now it would not be right. I'm thinking I wont go till tomorrow. I will be a mess tonight. Too close to me right now. Is that wrong?
| | | Phantom A6 wrote: | | That's normal, but don't show him your fears. Sometimes daddys little princesses have to be brave girls.
| | | spapad wrote: | | I will do that. I just hurt right now. I fear for him.
| | | Phantom A6 wrote: | | I know sweetie. All you can do (and that's a lot) is to be there for him, in your thoughts too. Show him your love and how much you need him.
| | | spapad wrote: | | Thank you Michael! I just want him to be better, he was just fine yesterday! It just came on him all of a sudden. He called Flora last night to plan to go have dinner with his older grandchildren at Virginia Tech today. Very suprsing.
| | | Phantom A6 wrote: | | Hi sweetie, big hugs from me for you too.
| | | spapad wrote: | | Hi Koen, my adventures for the day have ground to a halt. My father is in hospital with what appears to be, after hours being there, a small intestinal blockage. He will be held there till Tomorrow or Monday depending on how long it takes to completely empty his intestines. He will have surgery.
I wouldn't be so worried, except for the fact he had colorectal cancer about ten years ago, and now I'm scared. Nothing I can do, but wait.
| | | ShadowVT wrote: | | hellow Spapad xxxXXXXxxxx big hug
| | | spapad wrote: | | | Anyone in right now? I could really use a friend to talk to. |
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