your mom may be *blindside * by love too & believe anything he tells her

Just know you have plenty of friends here on the board & we're all ears for you whenever you want to vent--talk or just need a shoulder to cry on--ok ??

		blackshadow wrote:
		For the moment, I can maybe try to convince my father to let me stay with him. He's moving down to the coast next year, so it'll be a very temporary option. Joe (on the board) is my only real friend in this country and she lives in the Cape (west coast) . I have however been planning to move overseas to England next year after my court case with the Road Accident Fund has been completed, as I'm sorry, but I will not live in the same country as this man any longer. As for my mother, it's difficult to know what she knows or doesn't know. I'm just afraid of being "backed into a corner" so to speak, if she does side with him.