I don't know, she sounds a bit freaked out. How well do you know her and is this normal behaviour for her. any possiblilty she's abusing her meds as well? I think judging anyone in any situation is never good but don't speak to her if she's just going to upset you. If you feel you can speak to her and then not take what she has to say personally then go ahead but if it is going to cut then don't speak to her just yet. [Show/Hide Quoted Message](Quoting Message by Budred from Monday, January 10, 2011 9:24:00 AM)
Budred wrote:
The viewing was from 1:00pm to 5:00pm with a get together planned afterwards. My wife called his fiance the night
before to let her know we would be there later in the afternoon and go to the gathering after. We show up at around
4pm and there is a group of people on the side porch/entrance of the funeral home. We start to walk to the front entrance
when I hear someone say "It's about time you guys showed up". Mortified I turned around to see his fiance staring at us.
I couldn't even respond and just threw my hands up like "what". She waits a couple of seconds and then smiles and said "I
was kidding" ."Just a dark sense of humor today". I just looked at my wife and we started back towards the front. Then
she yells that she has to talk to me at the gathering and tell me something. I didn't even speak to her inside and didn't go
to the gathering because of her "JOKE". Now all I can think of is what did she want to tell me? Did I over-react?
Any opinions?
Budred wrote:
Today is the day. Finality! I'm so not wanting to do this. F*CK!!!!!!!!!!!!
