Take that advice only if you've married a prima donna (i.e. BITCH), prisoner. Were that the case, why not just avoid more arguments and just buy separate houses? Avoid, BS advice, my friend. Can't get around a "seat up / seat down" issue? I would fear for the future.
I am sure you have done nothing of the sort and married a wonderful woman. Got her to JP.com? Outstanding match! All the best to you and your wife. I wish you both a long and happy life together.
