Blackshadow, we are your friends. Respect is what most men strive for and it is irrelevant because it is from the outside in. Self-respect is what matters because whether people around you like or dislike you (and, oh, they can be fickle), you still respect you. (I often joke MY Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer story has a different ending... you punk biatches disrespected my red nose and now you want me to lead your f-ing sled? Kiss my chapped reindeer ass... um, perhaps I should work on forgiveness?)
