| [Vaillant 3.0] Friday, January 21, 2011 11:42:22 PM | |
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*Walks tiredly to the bar*
Uggghhh...whatta week. I need a drink...  |
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| [Budred] Saturday, January 08, 2011 7:34:47 AM | |
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I want to thank Hellrider and Joe for their comments. They are appreciated. I have to get this out of my head to prevent migraines
so I must make this my last post on this. The funeral is tomorrow. His fiance wants to have a gathering at his place afterwards and
I'm struggling with whether to show or not. It still hasn't been determined if it was accidental or on purpose. Do I shun her for something
that may have been accidental or do I support her. I'll probably go. Please don't respond to this. I must stop!
Thanks for the support! |
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| [joedraper] Friday, January 07, 2011 11:47:36 AM | |
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Bud, this is where you should come when horrible, unthinkable things like this happen. We're sort of a little family here and we're here to help each other through pain and hardship like this. Nothing you did created what happened so don't beat yourself up about that. Rather concentrate on how you can be of help to your friend's family.
I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Sudden death is so horrible. All I can say is you are in my prayers and you can speak to any of your friends here (including me) anytime you need support. This site and the friends I have here have helped me through some horrible situations. Let us be here for you xxx
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Budred from Thursday, January 06, 2011 10:50:49 AM)| |  | Budred wrote: | | I just received a phone call that may make this even more disturbing for me. It looks like he may have
done this to himself. He fought with his girlfriend almost daily lately. He was overheard saying he would
"fix" her by eating one of her scripts. She's missing a bunch of pills and he's dead. I'll stop posting on this.
This is giving me a migraine and I'm starting to get sick. I got to get this out of my head.
If "ANYONE" out there is going through anything similar to what he was, man just get the f*ck away. Doing what
he "may" have done solves nothing and leaves alot of hurt people in it's wake.
Lastly I'm sorry for these posts, I had nowhere else to go.
I'm probably going to stay away for a few days. Take care all. (And stay the f*ck away from those f*cking pills) |
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| [hellrider 31038] Thursday, January 06, 2011 7:48:41 PM | |
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so sorry to hear .my deepest sympathy
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Budred from Wednesday, January 05, 2011 8:54:38 PM)| | | Budred wrote: | | My wife stopped by where I work today. I asked her to call a friend of mine and let him know that we would stop by
after I got home. She told me he had sent us a text thanking us for a christmas card and that I have to read it. I called
her on my way home and asked her what the message said. She sounded a little down and she said he was thanking
us and telling us how awesome we are. I asked her if something was wrong and she said yes. She hesitated so I asked
her "What?" She said John died last night.
It's still fucking me up. He was 32 years old. I just saw him 3 days ago. WTF!!!
Edited at: Wednesday, January 05, 2011 9:02:21 PM |
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| [Budred] Thursday, January 06, 2011 10:51:29 AM | |
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Thanks man. Peace!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Thursday, January 06, 2011 8:04:03 AM)| | | Head banger wrote: | | | sorry to hear that bud. best wishes |
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| [Budred] Thursday, January 06, 2011 10:50:49 AM | |
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I just received a phone call that may make this even more disturbing for me. It looks like he may have
done this to himself. He fought with his girlfriend almost daily lately. He was overheard saying he would
"fix" her by eating one of her scripts. She's missing a bunch of pills and he's dead. I'll stop posting on this.
This is giving me a migraine and I'm starting to get sick. I got to get this out of my head.
If "ANYONE" out there is going through anything similar to what he was, man just get the f*ck away. Doing what
he "may" have done solves nothing and leaves alot of hurt people in it's wake.
Lastly I'm sorry for these posts, I had nowhere else to go.
I'm probably going to stay away for a few days. Take care all. (And stay the f*ck away from those f*cking pills) |
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| [Head banger] Thursday, January 06, 2011 8:04:03 AM | |
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| sorry to hear that bud. best wishes |
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| [Budred] Thursday, January 06, 2011 2:00:10 AM | |
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More like shocking and/ or surreal. Thanks for the comment. It's appreciated.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Vaillant 3.0 from Thursday, January 06, 2011 1:52:26 AM)| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | Isn't it strange how Life works like that? It would throw something surprising your way that you least expect to happen.
Sorry to hear about your friend.
| | | Budred wrote: | | My wife stopped by where I work today. I asked her to call a friend of mine and let him know that we would stop by
after I got home. She told me he had sent us a text thanking us for a christmas card and that I have to read it. I called
her on my way home and asked her what the message said. She sounded a little down and she said he was thanking
us and telling us how awesome we are. I asked her if something was wrong and she said yes. She hesitated so I asked
her "What?" She said John died last night.
It's still fucking me up. He was 32 years old. I just saw him 3 days ago. WTF!!!
Edited at: Wednesday, January 05, 2011 9:02:21 PM |
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| [Budred] Thursday, January 06, 2011 1:56:24 AM | |
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It's 2:45 am and I can't stay asleep. Maybe this is a little bad kharma for the stupid shit I wished on Jimmy.
I'm really regretting that right now.
Thanks Becks and HRMG. You're words are appreciated.
I wish we would have gotten his text sooner. He didn't even tell me he sent it the last time I saw him. It was a bit
sad reading it. Just an hour before my wife told me I had to, and I was looking forward to it. Now it just makes me cry. |
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| [Vaillant 3.0] Thursday, January 06, 2011 1:52:26 AM | |
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Isn't it strange how Life works like that? It would throw something surprising your way that you least expect to happen.
Sorry to hear about your friend.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Budred from Wednesday, January 05, 2011 8:54:38 PM)| | | Budred wrote: | | My wife stopped by where I work today. I asked her to call a friend of mine and let him know that we would stop by
after I got home. She told me he had sent us a text thanking us for a christmas card and that I have to read it. I called
her on my way home and asked her what the message said. She sounded a little down and she said he was thanking
us and telling us how awesome we are. I asked her if something was wrong and she said yes. She hesitated so I asked
her "What?" She said John died last night.
It's still fucking me up. He was 32 years old. I just saw him 3 days ago. WTF!!!
Edited at: Wednesday, January 05, 2011 9:02:21 PM |
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| [HOT ROCKIN' METAL GODDESS] Wednesday, January 05, 2011 11:36:17 PM | |
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Oh Budred, I'm so very sorry about your friend. Know that you have friends here thinking of you.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Budred from Wednesday, January 05, 2011 8:54:38 PM)| | | Budred wrote: | | My wife stopped by where I work today. I asked her to call a friend of mine and let him know that we would stop by
after I got home. She told me he had sent us a text thanking us for a christmas card and that I have to read it. I called
her on my way home and asked her what the message said. She sounded a little down and she said he was thanking
us and telling us how awesome we are. I asked her if something was wrong and she said yes. She hesitated so I asked
her "What?" She said John died last night.
It's still fucking me up. He was 32 years old. I just saw him 3 days ago. WTF!!!
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| [Becks] Wednesday, January 05, 2011 10:06:00 PM | |
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Oh man that is awful Budred, I am so sorry to hear about the death of your friend.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Budred from Wednesday, January 05, 2011 8:54:38 PM)| | | Budred wrote: | | My wife stopped by where I work today. I asked her to call a friend of mine and let him know that we would stop by
after I got home. She told me he had sent us a text thanking us for a christmas card and that I have to read it. I called
her on my way home and asked her what the message said. She sounded a little down and she said he was thanking
us and telling us how awesome we are. I asked her if something was wrong and she said yes. She hesitated so I asked
her "What?" She said John died last night.
It's still fucking me up. He was 32 years old. I just saw him 3 days ago. WTF!!!
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| [Budred] Wednesday, January 05, 2011 8:54:38 PM | |
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My wife stopped by where I work today. I asked her to call a friend of mine and let him know that we would stop by
after I got home. She told me he had sent us a text thanking us for a christmas card and that I have to read it. I called
her on my way home and asked her what the message said. She sounded a little down and she said he was thanking
us and telling us how awesome we are. I asked her if something was wrong and she said yes. She hesitated so I asked
her "What?" She said John died last night.
It's still fucking me up. He was 32 years old. I just saw him 3 days ago. WTF!!!
Edited at: Wednesday, January 05, 2011 9:02:21 PM |
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| [spapad] Tuesday, January 04, 2011 6:09:43 PM | |
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Everyone is refered to as a "user" and not a member. Has always been that way.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by METALMANJP from Tuesday, January 04, 2011 3:49:34 PM)| | | METALMANJP wrote: | | | Question ? Why do I not show up as a "Member " just a "User" when I log on ? |
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| [METALMANJP] Tuesday, January 04, 2011 3:49:34 PM | |
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| Question ? Why do I not show up as a "Member " just a "User" when I log on ? |
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| [METALMANJP] Tuesday, January 04, 2011 3:46:16 PM | |
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It's like a Morgue around here today. What is everybody actually working ? I'm ready for "Happy Hour" and the Buckeyes game. |
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| [guidogodoy] Saturday, December 04, 2010 7:51:58 PM | |
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Great news, Shadow!
Just coming back from a "Run for the cure" marathon and reading this post is just wonderful. Pics below are right before the start of a very cold morning of a very long race but for a very good cause. One in each direction from the start. All the best to you and yours.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ShadowVT from Friday, December 03, 2010 2:21:45 PM)| | | ShadowVT wrote: | | Hi everybody,
Dropped by in these busy times to let you guys and girls know that everything is AOK with our little angle.
the mistake they made with her medication did not do any perminate dammage
and we are back on track with the treatment
talk to yall later
greets
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| [joedraper] Friday, December 03, 2010 11:11:20 PM | |
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Totally awesome news to wake up to this morning~ Praise God Shadow! I wish you and Ellie a peaceful joyous Christmas. The Lord knows you need and deserve it xxx
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ShadowVT from Friday, December 03, 2010 2:21:45 PM)| | | ShadowVT wrote: | | Hi everybody,
Dropped by in these busy times to let you guys and girls know that everything is AOK with our little angle.
the mistake they made with her medication did not do any perminate dammage
and we are back on track with the treatment
talk to yall later
greets
ShadowVT |
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| [HOT ROCKIN' METAL GODDESS] Friday, December 03, 2010 6:49:25 PM | |
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I am so happy for you and your family Shadow!! Best wishes to your little angel and family!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ShadowVT from Friday, December 03, 2010 2:21:45 PM)| | | ShadowVT wrote: | | Hi everybody,
Dropped by in these busy times to let you guys and girls know that everything is AOK with our little angle.
the mistake they made with her medication did not do any perminate dammage
and we are back on track with the treatment
talk to yall later
greets
ShadowVT |
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| [Becks] Friday, December 03, 2010 6:16:22 PM | |
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Great news Shadow!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ShadowVT from Friday, December 03, 2010 2:21:45 PM)| | | ShadowVT wrote: | | Hi everybody,
Dropped by in these busy times to let you guys and girls know that everything is AOK with our little angle.
the mistake they made with her medication did not do any perminate dammage
and we are back on track with the treatment
talk to yall later
greets
ShadowVT |
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