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[_strat_] Sunday, May 17, 2009 3:35:22 AM 
Then I should also be ashamed for what they did wrong. And why stop at parents? Why not go back all the way to that first monkey that jumped off a tree and said "oh, Im tired of eating bananas. I want some BBQ!" and invented fire.

That, and family and nation are two very different things.
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[ron h] Saturday, May 16, 2009 7:28:58 PM 
Can morality be legislated??  Should morality be legislated??  Who decides what's morally right and wrong??  Separation of Church and State in the USA leaves politicians to decide.  No soloution satisfies everybody.  This is the reality, everything else is personal opinion and I will keep mine to myself on these issues...
[Head banger] Saturday, May 16, 2009 6:43:39 PM 
what was meant by this phrase, IMO was not a nationalistic message, but that people should do all they can to help their country, rather than asking for help.  in short independance, not dependance.  now the left calls for more people to behave in a way more dependant on the government, people depend on the govt, not govt on people
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[Head banger] Saturday, May 16, 2009 6:41:41 PM 
so you feel no pride in what your parents acomplished?
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[~ MG_Metalgoddess~] Saturday, May 16, 2009 5:23:45 PM 

LOL I meant when you get married the goverment taxes the shit out of you and your spouse.. so I figured they would want to approve the whole gay marriage thing...

 

I person.. Doesnt matter to me,   If people want to get married thats their buisness,, I think there is a whole lot of more real issues and problems going on in the USA..  that the whole gay marriage thing, they act like it more important than the war, or the economic crisis.. unemployment, banks crashing... ect..   I think its ridiculous.. myself... For people to make such an effort and turn out at the poles on this issue,  when over half of them dont even vote in the general elections.   Then whine and complain about  everything else...   Priorities....  Is what I call it....  Live and let live.. 

~MG~


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[_strat_] Saturday, May 16, 2009 3:58:43 PM 

Yup. Grey uniforms. VERY funny.

Personaly, pride is for something I achieved, not something that was determined from birth.

Names and nationality have very little in common. For a start, the parents can choose the name of the child, whereas the nationality is predetermined. And why would I be proud of where I come from? Why would you be, for that matter? What history do you come from? As far as Im concerned, my history started when I was born, not a day before.


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[spapad] Saturday, May 16, 2009 3:23:19 PM 
So pride in being who  you are from where your from is shunned in your ideal society? Does everyone wear gray uniforms and have  a number instead of a name? The act of giving a child a name is in and of itself showing pride in who that person is and where and what history they come from.
No thanks.

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[_strat_] Saturday, May 16, 2009 2:40:56 PM 
Well... Its associated with patriotism/nationalism, which nowadays is most commonly associated with the political right. When this has happened, I couldnt say, but it used to be pretty neutral, Im sure. Even Stalin resorted to nationalism in WW2, as did our leaders in WW2 and on, even tho they were leftists.

Basicaly, somewhere in the mid 20th century, most radical leftists in the west returned to the old idea of internationalism, as opposed to nationalism, or patriotism. I guess we can find some reasons in that.

As far as Im concerned, its bullshit. Basicly its saying: dont complain, work, be a good citizen, and do whatever we tell you. Theres more than a bit of fascism in that quote. Its why I personaly oppose any pride or feelings of affection for ones country, ethnic group or race.
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[Head banger] Saturday, May 16, 2009 2:26:09 PM 
 
in the 60 a left/center politician named kenedy uttered this famous line "Ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country"  today that would be a very right wing idea.  what has caused this shift in ideals and is it a good or bad thing?
[spapad] Saturday, May 16, 2009 2:03:07 PM 
The marriage tax not withstanding, I believe it is the loss of property and loss of benefits when one partner dies that is the biggest problem facing those who have no rights under marriage right now. I know a man who has lived with his partner for 45 years, he is now in a nursing home and his partner is still going; and a bit younger, thank god my friend chose to sign his property over to his long term partner a few years back when he saw the enevitable was going to happen to him with illness. His partner, though will never get any benifits of collecting his partner's benefits or social security, which should be by law his. 45 years with the same person should be applauded in any situation, and his rights as his partner have no protection. He will get no benifits except his own and that is not right. Widows barely make it as it is on the money they get, and to not have that portion, he's going to have to work till the day he joins his partner in death to afford to live. Sad really.
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[Head banger] Saturday, May 16, 2009 1:52:56 PM 
http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/capress/090516/world/russia_gay_rights
[_strat_] Saturday, May 16, 2009 1:44:30 PM 
Well, I did mean same-sex marriages, as opposed to marriages between people of different races/ethnicities. Not that either is wrong, and certainly isnt wrong if its "frowned upon".
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[Head banger] Saturday, May 16, 2009 1:36:25 PM 
I say mary who you want.  funny story when one canadian province (I forget which) legalized gay mariage they forgot to legalize their divorce.
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[Soylentgreen4u] Saturday, May 16, 2009 11:28:01 AM 
YES...TIS' A SILLY PLANET ...I MARRIED A HUMAN ONCE,SHE WAS DELIGHTFUL,SO I DON'T REALLY SEE THE PROBLEM WITH MIXED MIXED MARRIAGES...
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[~ MG_Metalgoddess~] Saturday, May 16, 2009 11:20:48 AM 
Just think how this could benefit the US Goverment, the could penalize more people with the Marriage TAX... LMAO
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[BLOOD SUCKER Esquire] Saturday, May 16, 2009 11:18:23 AM 
Mixed marriages? Still frowned upon in most modern societies. a. Hammerstein
[_strat_] Saturday, May 16, 2009 1:45:31 AM 
I agree. Basicly, if we go into laws, I think that the only requirement should be that people who want to get married all consent, and are adults. No requierments to the gender.

Although, since they should be treated like the rest of us, we must keep in mind that they are not privileged. Infact its quite the opposite.
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[spapad] Friday, May 15, 2009 6:25:32 PM 
I honestly believe that most people who profess to be gay were in fact born that way, and if they choose to share their lives in a union with someone, why shouldn't they get the same treatment under the laws that we all get.  That said, since 50 percent of marriages fail, let them also enjoy the hardships of that aspect as well. They should be treated just like the rest of us! It's only fair.
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[_strat_] Friday, May 15, 2009 5:28:07 PM 
Ok... Since the topic stalled a bit, how about something new? And I know that HB will come rushing to my side now...

Same sex marriage, yay or nay? And please, no miss USA, or miss California, or whatever that shit was about.
[BLOOD SUCKER Esquire] Thursday, May 14, 2009 12:21:44 PM 
How do you look at your parents the next morning? How does that parent look at you, now? And if the grand-parents know, then how do you look at your grandparents again? I would asssume that the discomfort level would be rather obvious. And the silence deafening. It just sends the wrong message, as the message you give your child is the one that your child takes out into the world. For any parent that is alright with this, is this the message that you want to pass on your child? Are these your standards, values, and principles? Or lack thereof? Being a parent is a job and a priviledge. And being a parental example is not easy. It's not supposed to be easy. Being responsible is not easy. But it is owed to the child. To be the parent, not the best friend of big sister or brother. Then don't need more friends. They only have one (or two) parents. That is what you are supposed to be. To heck with all the New Age ways of child rearing and the buddy-reward system. They can stuff it! a. Hammerstein
[_strat_] Thursday, May 14, 2009 11:07:37 AM 
Oh, now thats just cruel... The poor girl had to wait in the closet while you were having dinner? Lol...
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[Deep Freeze] Thursday, May 14, 2009 7:42:33 AM 
HAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well, I suppose this is as good a thread as any to tell the story. Not all THAT much to tell, actually. I had a girlfriend (Barbie..YES! Her real name) back when I was about 16 or 17. One night, I snuck her into my room. I planned to go in with her after dinner. My younger brother happened into my room and found her (with no clothes) in my closet. HAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TRUE story!! He was all bug-eyed and scared! Came to me in a panic. I got him to keep quiet and I went to bed. She left after my parents went to work in the morning.
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[spapad] Tuesday, May 12, 2009 6:02:16 PM 
My answer to that is simple and direct! NOT ON MY WATCH!!!! A good parent would never encourage such behavior. Even when my child reaches her older college years and wants to bring home Mr. Right to meet the fam. on spring break, there will be NO sharing a room! My house, my rules! Once she's married would be the only time she will bring a male into my house and share a room with him.
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[ron h] Tuesday, May 12, 2009 4:22:41 PM 
As a father of an 18 year old daughter who I do not live with, I am left with my opinion vs. her mothers' and my daughter is left to make up her own mind.  This was not the case when she was a minor, but my oh my how things changed when that magic number (18) rolled in.  

Personally, I find it hard to believe that she would take the chance of throwing away all her efforts in school to make the grades she needed to in order to get into a decent college by risking an unplanned pregnancy by having sex (which is what happens when bf/gf get to stay the night).  We all know that if they want to do the deed, they will do it.  

I'm at a point in my life (and my daughter's) that I have no choice but to rely on her own morals and values that have been instilled and taught to her throughout her life.  Prior to now, there was never any real discussion about it as her and her mother both knew that there was nothing that could be said in a manner to which I would be understanding of or persuaded to ever go along with any situation that would allow that to happen.

I'm not from an age where the kid has to understand why a parent thinks the way they do.  Kids nowadays seem to think everythings negotiable with their parents.  I don't believe so.  This is a tough topic, we all dealt with it growing up, and those of us that are parents get the pleasure of going through it again and again.  

I know I wrote earlier that if they want to do it that they'll do it, this much is true, but I think it's irresponsible parenting to roll the red carpet out for them.
[BLOOD SUCKER Esquire] Tuesday, May 12, 2009 1:48:46 PM 
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Being_The_Parent_And_The_Friend.html
Edited at: Tuesday, May 12, 2009 1:59:54 PM
[_strat_] Tuesday, May 12, 2009 1:28:16 PM 
A girl in the closet?!?! Did you have them on stock, or something?

Sorry, but that just made me laugh out loud...
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[Return_of_Darth_Painkiller_0870] Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:55:12 AM 
I don't think that allowing your kids' b/f or g/f to sleep over is a good idea at all.  Like Freeze pointed out, they don't fully understand the ramifications of such actions.  For example, what if the girl gets pregnant????  Granted, if they're away at university, there isn't much of anything we can do about their promiscuity, but we have to instill in them the sense and the values to conduct themselves with a sense of decency.  Fuck, I sound like a prude talking like this...However as a parent, I look at my children and think that if I don't instill in them the lessons I have learned in life and my values and sense of decency, and if they don't live by them, then I would have failed them.  That all being said, there is no way in hell I would allow my daughter to sleep at some boy's house or my son to sleep at some girl's house.  It sets a bad precedent for one, and let's them know they can get away with doing the wild thing wthout fear of reprisal.

Now that I've said my peace, it's time to shower and go see Star Trek!!!!  Mr. Sulu...Engage!
[BLOOD SUCKER Esquire] Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:37:07 AM 
Permissive parents that are more interested in being their child's best mate then their parent. The age of the child is irrelevant. As long as that child is a minor and living under the roof of the parents, and going to school, then those parents owe that child a duty of service to behave like responsible parents. Not their mates. It really matters not what little Sally or Tommy do. It really matters not what little Sally's or Tommy's parents condone. What matters is what I condone. And when they're out of school and on their own, then they can formulate theor own decision making process. But while they live under my roof and I pave their way morally and financially, the answer is and will always be a vehement NO! a. Hammerstein
[Deep Freeze] Tuesday, May 12, 2009 8:19:07 AM 
Hmm. Now THIS is an interesting question! You know, I have a problem with it all together but I really think that has to do with upbringing. I mean, there is just NO way I would allow my son or daughter to have a girlfriend or boyfriend stay the night. Period. In fact, even at eighteen there is a lack of mental development and yet we consider them "adults". HA!!!!!!!!!!  The fact is, children are not able to make that kind of decision (sexual activity) and understand its ramifications, so they should not be put into that kind of situation in the first place.

HB makes the point that they will find a way. This is quite true, however, I do not want to "appear" to be against casual sex. I AM against it. At least as far as children are concerned. I do not think allowing children to wear make up is  wise. Or watch questionable movies. Or speak using foul language. Or drink alcohol (under adult supervision).  The point is, as parents, we must establish boundaries and make it clear as to why they are not to be broached. It is not a "control" issue. It is a decency issue. It is how parents teach values. You remember those, don't you? Values? Some of us do.

HB is right. They are going to "do it". We did. My parents did. Their parents did. The point is, it is our responsibility to guide them towards understanding what it means to have self-respect. How to conduct oneself in society. My parents would NEVER have allowed me to bring a girlfriend over for the night. Never. Of course, I did hide one in my bedroom closet once.....HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! True story but not for this post!!! HAHAHAHAA!!!  

It is a matter of leading them in the right directions and showing them what is expected of decent society. Children actually DO look to parents for that kind of thing...believe it or not! It is important that we establish the tent poles of decency and build that for them.
[Head banger] Tuesday, May 12, 2009 7:20:10 AM 
teenager is a wide range, 13-19.  then there is the how long dating, are they in separate rooms, do the room locations offer them an easy way to sneek in together.  fact is, they will end up doing anything they want sexualy, regardless of letting one sleep over, but you need to look like you discourage casual sex.
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[BLOOD SUCKER Esquire] Tuesday, May 12, 2009 1:38:30 AM 
QUESTION OF THE DAY: "When is it okay to allow a teenagers boyfriend or girlfriend to sleep over?" a. Hammerstein
[Head banger] Monday, May 04, 2009 9:47:07 AM 
I figured
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[_strat_] Monday, May 04, 2009 9:14:39 AM 
The way you throw your hands in the air, its a wonder you still have them.
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[Deep Freeze] Monday, May 04, 2009 7:51:16 AM 
Umm...EVERYTHING strat is saying here is wrong and ...that's just the way it is..(*throwing my hands in the air*) BWWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
[_strat_] Monday, May 04, 2009 7:25:58 AM 
I agree. I was being a bit sarcastic with the last sentence.
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[Head banger] Monday, May 04, 2009 6:54:21 AM 
yeah, sure.  will get right on that.
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[Head banger] Monday, May 04, 2009 6:48:41 AM 

all economies are crumbling right now, three reasons stand out.  


economic growth goes in cycles
the price of oil got out of control, hurting most nations
credit was extended wrongly puting strain on the system

any one of these things could have been absorbed, all three could not, creating this mess.  it will turn around.

share value in the north american market will also turn around.  how your share system works, not sure


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[Ellieke] Monday, May 04, 2009 2:13:28 AM 

Tell me about it !!

We have to vote , not choice there or you'll get a fine of 250€, but what ever the people say the gouverment just makes up it's onw rules later on.

democracy they call it ! tsssssssss

[BLOOD SUCKER Esquire] Monday, May 04, 2009 2:04:41 AM 
Voting does not work. You replace one idea with another idea. And then in a few years, you want that old idea back. And then back and forth again. There are far too few political parties in some countries, and far to many in others. But at the end of the day, ideals like communism, socialism, fascism, and totalitarianism are not too far off from being the purest form of idealogical forms of government. Too many voices, and too many generals eventually spoil the stew. The stew only needs a few ingredients to taste good. Meat, potatoes, carrots, onions, garlic, and gravy. Add some salt and pepper, and it tastes good. But add the wrong ingredients, and you have to throw the stew out. Just like bad goverment. a. Hammerstein
[_strat_] Monday, May 04, 2009 1:36:24 AM 
Yup. Parties are bullshit, one party rules. My party. I expect to have my picture on your desktop, and you will pray to me before you go to sleep.
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[_strat_] Monday, May 04, 2009 1:32:06 AM 

Exactly. At the beginning they were worth a fair bit. But, since there were a lot of them, and only a few companies who were buying them... They lost worth. Now, Im guessing its around 100€per person. Maybe not even that much. For 30 years of work in some cases. Thats why the economy is crumbling, I guess.


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[Head banger] Sunday, May 03, 2009 9:08:31 PM 
well, right now they would be worth squat, considering the economy
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[Head banger] Sunday, May 03, 2009 9:07:23 PM 
there you go, you have politics figured out.
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[_strat_] Sunday, May 03, 2009 1:02:16 PM 
Quite frankly, I think that the parties are bullshit. Populism, to win more votes. Politics are all about advertising now, and less about the content.
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[_strat_] Sunday, May 03, 2009 1:00:06 PM 
No dividends, at least as far as I know. As for the worth, that really depends on the stock market, and of course, the offers. There are several companies who buy them, and they all compete with those prices.
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[Head banger] Sunday, May 03, 2009 10:27:03 AM 
I like the idea that everyone votes, but I also like the idea  that you have an option to say these guys are all idiots find me a new slate of candidates.  multiparty systems do create coalitions and short terms, which could be good or bad.  personaly I am starting to like the 2 party system in the states beter.  but you cant take a multiparty system and go back, only forwards.  perhaps merging parties would help?
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[Head banger] Sunday, May 03, 2009 10:21:10 AM 
if they held onto them, would they get dividends?  could it be worth more now?
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[_strat_] Sunday, May 03, 2009 6:56:27 AM 
An individual did what was best for him/her. 

Now, I did oversimplify the issue a bit, but the way it went was that you got a certain worth of "certificates". You had a piece of paper that said you own a tiny little piece of something. In practice, there were only two things you could do with it: sell it or wipe your ass with it. Naturaly, people sold it.
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[Ellieke] Sunday, May 03, 2009 1:30:58 AM 

If anyone is looking for a politic challenge, just start with our Belgium politic system.
We have to vote , if we don't we'll get a fine of atleast 250€ but even when the results are in they can't make up their mind who is gone lead the country.
We are a year after the past election and still we don't know for sure who is leading Belgium, on June 7th we'll have to vote again maybe they will come to a workingagrement this time.

It's so complicated to know who is who and who does what, we have 3 different parlements for the 3 parts of Belgium and we have one that is for the whole of Belgium. 
We have a king who doesn't have anything to say but hey is nice to see his castle and the gossip is fun. 

Politics , nothing for me and I'm byfar not the only one who things about it like this. The people are so sick of the "buddy-politics" it wouldn't surpice me if there is a national stike if the results of the next voting are respected by the politicians. 

[Palmer Griffiths] Sunday, May 03, 2009 1:06:02 AM 
Hey you ever here of a film called Manufacturing Consent ? it's by Noam Chomsky and it talks about the Mass media and how it's used to influence people.Another good documentary.
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