No sweetie, that's not wrong. Sometimes it's strange 'Cause to cry and show tears is one way of us to tell how much we love special persons (family, good friends and so on). Ya, tonight you're a mess because of your fear, but tomorrow you're a little bit stronger. [Show/Hide Quoted Message](Quoting Message by spapad from Saturday, April 25, 2009 1:47:41 PM)
spapad wrote:
I will try to be, although I usually cry at the drop of a hat. If I go there, I will cry. I have never been able to avoid that. I'm too empathetic for my own good.
If I cry in front of him now it would not be right. I'm thinking I wont go till tomorrow. I will be a mess tonight. Too close to me right now. Is that wrong?
Phantom A6 wrote:
That's normal, but don't show him your fears. Sometimes daddys little princesses have to be brave girls.
spapad wrote:
I will do that. I just hurt right now. I fear for him.
Phantom A6 wrote:
I know sweetie. All you can do (and that's a lot) is to be there for him, in your thoughts too. Show him your love and how much you need him.
spapad wrote:
Thank you Michael! I just want him to be better, he was just fine yesterday! It just came on him all of a sudden. He called Flora last night to plan to go have dinner with his older grandchildren at Virginia Tech today. Very suprsing.
Phantom A6 wrote:
Hi sweetie, big hugs from me for you too.
spapad wrote:
Hi Koen, my adventures for the day have ground to a halt. My father is in hospital with what appears to be, after hours being there, a small intestinal blockage. He will be held there till Tomorrow or Monday depending on how long it takes to completely empty his intestines. He will have surgery.
I wouldn't be so worried, except for the fact he had colorectal cancer about ten years ago, and now I'm scared. Nothing I can do, but wait.
ShadowVT wrote:
hellow Spapad xxxXXXXxxxx big hug
spapad wrote:
Anyone in right now? I could really use a friend to talk to.
