Hey Hellrider....I appreciate your concern for me my friend and I am glad I have friends here like you who do care......

My sister is a very selfish individual,she always has been and I've NEVER got along with her even before this.

She has some issues that she need to address in her life.  We were NEVER "close" to begin with.........

What happened last summer when this stuff blew up...was just the topper for me.   That was it.  

But don't get me wrong...I really appreciate your advise Hellrider....and I know it must look different

from your aspect and others here....but  one thing is definately clear for me......................................

I will never arrange to speak with her or try to patch things up.........if she tries to contact me in the future..

I will not be avaible for a reconciliation with her..........I don't care if she meant what she said or not......

....by not speaking with her for 30 + years from now will teach her not to open up her fat mouth and

say something stupid to anyone else throughout her life.  If that takes 30 years...so be it. 

I really do not need her in my life and after 30 + years....................no regrets.....

I believe everyone should cut all the negatives out of thier lives....I've taken care of mine.

		hellrider 31038 wrote:
		hey J.D DIAMOND.dont mean to drag the conversation on relise you probably dont feel like talking anymore about it.but as a friend looking out for best interest i have to say to  you i think you would be better off if you arranged to talk to your sister sometime commly and just get it all out with her man.its very oviouse you have alot of anger for her.dont blame you she said some very hurtful  comments.just let it all out with her man .      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: ....Yep...thats what I said after the entire situation!!      Oh well....as I've said.....I'm better off now anyways!!       spapad wrote: I must say she sounds pretty aweful as you describe her. Shame, as you two should be able to cling to each other, but if the relationship was broken long ago it probably wont be fixed. Im Sorry J.D. but you take the peace you have and let that rule your life and not anything negative she would say. Peace, my friend!      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: ...Yeah thats some serious shit aint it?  I forgot...not only did I starve my mother to death,...I ripped her bank account off and my girlfriend stole my mother's pills to get high on????#*&#??!?!?!?? LOL! Thats what she told me about a year ago now......I have no idea where that came from either..........and I haven't talked to her since. Honestly..I really don't care... she was a pain in the ass before all this happened and now I have a reason not to deal with her!.  But as for my mother....(you mentioned forgiving my mother.....). .there is nothing to forgive or anything to clear up....my mother and I were cool and all thats for sure...... ...yeah shit happens as they say eh?  Thanks for the advise my friend....you rock spapad!      spapad wrote: J.D. No one says you have to forgive your sister or your mother today, just learn to let it go a piece at a time, and I agree with Hellrider, it was probably something she just could not deal with at the time so she chose to lash out.  Time and friends and family heal all wounds. It will happen at it's natural time. Don't feel angry just feel confused, which is where most of your anger comes from. I'ts a shame we can't all be born with the garantee life will be fair. Much Love to you my metal friend, and may you find peace in your own time.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Well.....maybe hellrider....but NOBODY fucks me over and gets away with it.  You do have a point.....she should of thought about what she said before she said it. Anyways....it is what it is...but thanks for letting me vent this out man!!      hellrider 31038 wrote: seriouse.man that is a very nasty comment from your sister but .maybee though emotionaly she could not handle seeing her (your) mother in that condition and thats why she did not come around and when she did come around she just freaked right out seeing her like she was and said a bunch of nonsense.just a thought..hey man dont forget the fact that she is your sister.shes blood man.im sure deep down if anything bad happened to her i am sure you would be really upset and might really regret x ing her out of your family and then you have to live with that for the rest of your life      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Yeah hellrider......its tough.....what do ya say to your own mother when you hear her say constantly   "I can't wait until I'm dead"?  Yeah it was drama to say the least....I don't mean that my mother was being dramatic..I just meant that the whole senario was drama ya know?   And yeah....there was absolutely NOTHING I could of done....I was there all the time for her...every night.... My  "C *  # T" sister of mine was NEVER there and when my mother died she told me that "I starved my mother to death"....as she lost weight from being so ill......... Needless to say....I "Xed" her out of my family....she is no longer a part of my family and I wish her nothing but the worst in life...I hate her guts and will NEVER speak to her ever again. Mother fucker says that I starved my own mother to death........what that shit comment was....is that she felt guilty for NOT being there for my mother wich she wasn't . But yeah...again...I will never be speaking to her again...and its been over a year since I told her to fuck off. ..........and to tell you the truth.....I should of Xed her ass out of my life years ago. She is nothing but a "loser". Thats all she will ever be.      hellrider 31038 wrote: heart breaking to read.sounds like total hell for many years..you probably did not grieve till after because you were just so full of anger there was nothing you could do to help her.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Hey...thanks Hellrider man.........yeah my mother was very sick she had "emphysema".....a condition from smoking ....as she smoked cigaretts for years.....she quit(too late)in 1988. But the disease as it works continued on and basically she slowly suffocated to death.  I watched her suffer every night for years.......about the last 6- to 7 years she was the worst... It was very heart breaking to watch to tell you the truth even though it was self inflicted as she was the one who decided to smoke......but it didn't make it any easier ya know? But the good thing is .....and I know this sounds morbid....but the good thing is that she finally died and was put out of her misery.   I never really had time to grieve during her sickness as I guess I was too busy. But it hit me about 6 months after she died.        And yes....she would be very proud of me for me quitting drinking.   Thanks again my friend!!!    (Quoting Message by hellrider 31038 from Wednesday, July 15, 2009 10:56:34 PM)   hellrider 31038 wrote:   hey J.D yeah i remember you mentioning about your mother a while back again i would like to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family.well im sure she would be very happy and proud of you for quiting drinking.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote:   Thanks Hellrider!!!   Yeah man...the last drink...well..... the last several of drinks I had was  "the day my mother died"(August 30,2007....R.I.P.)   Ever since.....I have not had a sip and I don't plan on ever having one again. Its just not my thing and not for me. But I am sometimes around people that get to wasted and they end up fucking my whole night up and I'm sick of it. Yeah Hellrider....I'm with you man...if I want to get ripped out of my mind I will crank up Judas Priest!!!!!! And to Al-Fons.....thats too bad to hear about your father and I hope that you are not in a battle with alchohol.    (Quoting Message by hellrider 31038 from Tuesday, July 14, 2009 7:05:30 PM)   hellrider 31038 wrote:   HELL YEAH J.D DIAMOND THY COOOMMMMMMAAAANNNNDDDDEEEERRRR.congradulation man thats great.i dont drink  either.if i want to get riped out of my skull i will just crank up some JUDAS PRIEST HEAVY   MEEEETTTTTT     TTTTAAAALLLLLL      J.D. DIAMOND wrote:    "ALCOHOLISM".               I am fucking sick and fucking tired of "drunks".....people getting "fucked up" that can't handle it. If you want to ruin your life,......go ahead...just leave me the fuck out of it. I'm so tired of people that drink..... J.D. hasn't had a drink in over 2 years now and I don't EVER plan on having one for the rest of my life. Edited at: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 4:29:35 AM Edited at: Thursday, July 16, 2009 3:27:18 AM

Well.....maybe hellrider....but NOBODY fucks me over and gets away with it.  You do have a point.....she should of thought about what she said before she said it.

Anyways....it is what it is...but thanks for letting me vent this out man!!

		hellrider 31038 wrote:
		seriouse.man that is a very nasty comment from your sister but .maybee though emotionaly she could not handle seeing her (your) mother in that condition and thats why she did not come around and when she did come around she just freaked right out seeing her like she was and said a bunch of nonsense.just a thought..hey man dont forget the fact that she is your sister.shes blood man.im sure deep down if anything bad happened to her i am sure you would be really upset and might really regret x ing her out of your family and then you have to live with that for the rest of your life      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Yeah hellrider......its tough.....what do ya say to your own mother when you hear her say constantly   "I can't wait until I'm dead"?  Yeah it was drama to say the least....I don't mean that my mother was being dramatic..I just meant that the whole senario was drama ya know?   And yeah....there was absolutely NOTHING I could of done....I was there all the time for her...every night.... My  "C *  # T" sister of mine was NEVER there and when my mother died she told me that "I starved my mother to death"....as she lost weight from being so ill......... Needless to say....I "Xed" her out of my family....she is no longer a part of my family and I wish her nothing but the worst in life...I hate her guts and will NEVER speak to her ever again. Mother fucker says that I starved my own mother to death........what that shit comment was....is that she felt guilty for NOT being there for my mother wich she wasn't . But yeah...again...I will never be speaking to her again...and its been over a year since I told her to fuck off. ..........and to tell you the truth.....I should of Xed her ass out of my life years ago. She is nothing but a "loser". Thats all she will ever be.      hellrider 31038 wrote: heart breaking to read.sounds like total hell for many years..you probably did not grieve till after because you were just so full of anger there was nothing you could do to help her.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Hey...thanks Hellrider man.........yeah my mother was very sick she had "emphysema".....a condition from smoking ....as she smoked cigaretts for years.....she quit(too late)in 1988. But the disease as it works continued on and basically she slowly suffocated to death.  I watched her suffer every night for years.......about the last 6- to 7 years she was the worst... It was very heart breaking to watch to tell you the truth even though it was self inflicted as she was the one who decided to smoke......but it didn't make it any easier ya know? But the good thing is .....and I know this sounds morbid....but the good thing is that she finally died and was put out of her misery.   I never really had time to grieve during her sickness as I guess I was too busy. But it hit me about 6 months after she died.        And yes....she would be very proud of me for me quitting drinking.   Thanks again my friend!!!    (Quoting Message by hellrider 31038 from Wednesday, July 15, 2009 10:56:34 PM)   hellrider 31038 wrote:   hey J.D yeah i remember you mentioning about your mother a while back again i would like to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family.well im sure she would be very happy and proud of you for quiting drinking.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote:   Thanks Hellrider!!!   Yeah man...the last drink...well..... the last several of drinks I had was  "the day my mother died"(August 30,2007....R.I.P.)   Ever since.....I have not had a sip and I don't plan on ever having one again. Its just not my thing and not for me. But I am sometimes around people that get to wasted and they end up fucking my whole night up and I'm sick of it. Yeah Hellrider....I'm with you man...if I want to get ripped out of my mind I will crank up Judas Priest!!!!!! And to Al-Fons.....thats too bad to hear about your father and I hope that you are not in a battle with alchohol.    (Quoting Message by hellrider 31038 from Tuesday, July 14, 2009 7:05:30 PM)   hellrider 31038 wrote:   HELL YEAH J.D DIAMOND THY COOOMMMMMMAAAANNNNDDDDEEEERRRR.congradulation man thats great.i dont drink  either.if i want to get riped out of my skull i will just crank up some JUDAS PRIEST HEAVY   MEEEETTTTTT     TTTTAAAALLLLLL      J.D. DIAMOND wrote:    "ALCOHOLISM".               I am fucking sick and fucking tired of "drunks".....people getting "fucked up" that can't handle it. If you want to ruin your life,......go ahead...just leave me the fuck out of it. I'm so tired of people that drink..... J.D. hasn't had a drink in over 2 years now and I don't EVER plan on having one for the rest of my life. Edited at: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 4:29:35 AM Edited at: Thursday, July 16, 2009 3:27:18 AM

I live in Belgium and I wouldn't say that drinking over here is more popular than smoking pot. I think it's more the opposite, especially among the younger generation. Marijuana is very accesible over here. It was everywhere when I was in highschool. Some of my classmates were high while they were attending classes. The teachers didn't seem to care. One classmate actually smoked pot right before he had an oral exam, so he would relax. He did that everytime and passed. LOL!

I think most of the marijuana over here is homegrown stuff. It's also a fact that the marijuana that is cultivated in Europe today is much stronger than the marijuana people used over here in the 1960's and 1970's. I know many people who decided to quit using marijuana soon after they started the habit. A dude I know quit after he realized that smoking pot was making him paranoid. Everytime he was high he thought that some folks would plunder his town and burn his house down. I know many people who quit smoking pot because of similar experiences.

Another drug that is becoming increasingly popular over here is cocaine. It's entering the continent via the harbours of Antwerp and Rotterdam. It used to be the drug of the rich and famous, but now it's also affecting the working class because it has become cheaper. 

I have never used pot or any other drug. I just never cared for it. Hell, I've never even smoked cigarettes. The only thing I ever did was getting drunk just once after drinking large quantities of cheap wine. It happened years ago, but I remember that I felt really sick and that I had to throw up. It was the first time I used alcohol, but it was also the last time I used it. I immediatly realized that this is not for me.

Yeah I agree. I have never seen people hurting one another or putting anyone at unnecessary risk or crash a car because of it....good point.

Smoking "good" pot is so much more relaxing than drinking to me but thats just for my own personal taste...others may have a drink to get there.

		Becks wrote:
		LOL Yeah in England social drinking in pubs is a big thing - and since NZ is a commonwealth nation (colonised by the British) it's the same here. My sister lives in London (in Whitechapel, now that place has a colourful history haha) and earlier this year we went to meet her at her flat at about 8am, and there was drunk dudes on the road singing 'I'm numero uno!' errrr yeah keep telling yourself that buddy! LOL!. And in Paris a drunk guy tried to pick a fight with me, lol! It's actually kinda sad to see how these people have become slaves to 'the demon drink'. As for pot - as long as whoever is doing it isn't hurting other people or putting anyone at unnecessary risk, it doesn't really bother me that much. It's the same with booze. So long as whoever is using it is being responsible etc, sweet as.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Becks wrote:  "But I would say drinking is far and away the most popular recreational 'drug' activity here. By a long shot." Yeah Becks...thats what I kinda figured.Its like that over in England as well as other Europe countries.  I do know that here in Seattle...smoking pot is very acceptable and seems to be just as popular as alcohol. Sometimes...maybe even more popular than alcohol.         Becks wrote: Attitudes to alcohol are a bit too liberal here. By liberal I mean it's accepted as a 'cool' thing to do by too many parts of society. Hell, I drink, but very rarely, and I know when to stop. There was a young guy in my home province who died (can't remember exactly how, but it was alcohol related). His mates still go to his grave to drink, and leave him bottles of spirits. Some people never learn sadly. Apparently per capita NZ is pretty high up there for marijuana use. But with a small country, per capita stuff always makes things seem really 'bad' LOL! I know plenty of people who never use it, but others will know plenty of people who do. But I would say drinking is far and away the most popular recreational 'drug' activity here. By a long shot.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: A casket carried out of a "church" with..."beer labels on it"???  Wow...you would NEVER see that in the U.S.A........not saying that I would like to see that...but just saying that I don't think they would even allow that over here. And yeah.....what kind of a message is that sendijng to other teens out there who are beginning to drink?  Not a smart move on thier part thats for sure.  Drinking and driving is the worst thing you can do in life no questions. And I think "marijuana"  is not that popular in New Zealand is it Becks? It seems that in Europe....drinking is the #1 thing to do or #1 choice over marijuana.   Also.....not everywhere in the world do you get "quality" marijuna. I know in Denver Colorado over here in the states.....the marijuna is absolutely "shit" and its nothing more than home grown dirt weed is what we like to call it.My girlfriend is from Denver so she knows. I live in Seattle Washington and here we are known for some of the best marijuna in the whole U.S.A. ....sometimes its hard to find but not that often......everywhere we go we always run into great marijuna! But that might be why some countries don't smoke as much weed because it sucks and I wouldn't smoke dirt shit weed either...if thats all I had to smoke than I would quit. I am an "addict" because if I don't smoke weed for a couple of days I am an asshole! LOL! Hey...at least I admit it.    I guess I am an alcoholic too, but "choose not to drink".      Becks wrote: Alcohol abuse and drunk drivers are two of the things that piss me off more than anything! Can't comment on pot, never tried it (never interested me personally LOL). But yeah, especially among teenagers here, alcohol abuse/binge drinking is rife. There was a crash in another part of the country recently where 3 young men died (one was only 16). Their families were saying the weren't what we call boy racers (young guys who do up their cars, and spend their evenings driving around being assholes). They also engage is risky behaviour such as drinking and driving. Which is why many eyebrows were raised when a picture was published of the 16 year olds casket being carried out of church, COVERED in beer labels. WTF sort of message is that sending about alcohol!      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Yes...alcohol is far more dangerous than smoking pot.  I don't care if pot gets legalized but I would like to see them "decriminalize" pot. That is what they should do. But going back to alcohol....yes it is way more serious and dangerous than pot.  Have somebody drink a fifth of alcohol and have someone else smoke an eighth of weed and see wich one drives better! lol! I'd take the guy that just smoked an eighth than the drunk stumbling idiot that just drank the fifth!!      Dissident Deceiver wrote: Mushrooms... LOL! Believe it or not, but mushrooms used to be legal in Holland. You could buy them in special drugstores. It became illegal about a year ago after a few individuals jumped off a bridge after they had used mushrooms.  Did you know that alcohol is a harddrug? It's far more dangerous than pot.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Yeah thats for me too.....I love smoking "good" buds.....and up here in Washington State...we have some of the best............ And yeah people who smoke weed and do nothing all day and do nothing in life should give it up........its a waste for them. I don't look a smoking pot as doing drugs. I've done "drugs" and pot is a "joke".  I used to sniff crystal meth....and some  cocaine....... I used to take acid in the 80's....I've done mushrooms,synthetic heroin......but that is in the past.....the last time I did any drugs was the summer of 1995.....14 years ago!!   So all I do now is simply smoke my weed and I am happy! LOL!  No alcohol though!!!      Sinner Rider wrote: Funny.. that is my choice as well.. I'm what you call an active pothead. I still clean my house, cook everynight and walk my dogs all while enjoying some good green.  I will enjoy beer and wine and sometimes for birthdays and New years, I get wasted. I wake up feeling like crap and ask myself why I did that..  Much more enjoyable with Mary Jane..      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: I don't drink "at all".    I smoke pot though...have since I was 15 and I'm 39 now.   Pot over alchohol anyday. And I am NOT one of these burned out stoners who can't think for chist's sake....weed has no slouching effect on me whatsoever. But I am done dealing with people who absuse alchohol..........one word for them.................."GROWN THE FUCK UP".      Sinner Rider wrote: Couldn't agree more... I almost walked out of the bar job cause I was so sick of stupid wasted people. And stupid men hitting on me, that would start at about 8pm... 2am and the same dude is sitting at the bar still trying to take me home... I'm the cut off queen at the bar.. if they look too drunk or keep bothering me. I would just cut them off. I'm very glad that I don't work there! Its been just 2 weeks and my house is clean again and I get laundry done, plus I get to spend time with my dogs.. One full time job is enough!  Hey I will drink beer or wine.. just not in large quanties...      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: I don't mind if someone has a casual drink or two....but I am SICK of dealing with "drunk people".....I don't deal with drunk people to often,but even once a year is too much for me. I'm "DONE" with alchoholic people.   Take your booze and go F#*# yourselves with it.      Sinner Rider wrote: Funny that is exact reason I just quite my 2nd job as a bartender. Almost 4 years in a biker bar, and I called it quits. I'm very sick of drunk people.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote:  "ALCOHOLISM".               I am fucking sick and fucking tired of "drunks".....people getting "fucked up" that can't handle it. If you want to ruin your life,......go ahead...just leave me the fuck out of it. I'm so tired of people that drink..... J.D. hasn't had a drink in over 2 years now and I don't EVER plan on having one for the rest of my life.

Becks wrote:  "But I would say drinking is far and away the most popular recreational 'drug' activity here. By a long shot."


Yeah Becks...thats what I kinda figured.Its like that over in England as well as other Europe countries. 

I do know that here in Seattle...smoking pot is very acceptable and seems to be just as popular as alcohol.

Sometimes...maybe even more popular than alcohol.
  

		Becks wrote:
		Attitudes to alcohol are a bit too liberal here. By liberal I mean it's accepted as a 'cool' thing to do by too many parts of society. Hell, I drink, but very rarely, and I know when to stop. There was a young guy in my home province who died (can't remember exactly how, but it was alcohol related). His mates still go to his grave to drink, and leave him bottles of spirits. Some people never learn sadly. Apparently per capita NZ is pretty high up there for marijuana use. But with a small country, per capita stuff always makes things seem really 'bad' LOL! I know plenty of people who never use it, but others will know plenty of people who do. But I would say drinking is far and away the most popular recreational 'drug' activity here. By a long shot.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: A casket carried out of a "church" with..."beer labels on it"???  Wow...you would NEVER see that in the U.S.A........not saying that I would like to see that...but just saying that I don't think they would even allow that over here. And yeah.....what kind of a message is that sendijng to other teens out there who are beginning to drink?  Not a smart move on thier part thats for sure.  Drinking and driving is the worst thing you can do in life no questions. And I think "marijuana"  is not that popular in New Zealand is it Becks? It seems that in Europe....drinking is the #1 thing to do or #1 choice over marijuana.   Also.....not everywhere in the world do you get "quality" marijuna. I know in Denver Colorado over here in the states.....the marijuna is absolutely "shit" and its nothing more than home grown dirt weed is what we like to call it.My girlfriend is from Denver so she knows. I live in Seattle Washington and here we are known for some of the best marijuna in the whole U.S.A. ....sometimes its hard to find but not that often......everywhere we go we always run into great marijuna! But that might be why some countries don't smoke as much weed because it sucks and I wouldn't smoke dirt shit weed either...if thats all I had to smoke than I would quit. I am an "addict" because if I don't smoke weed for a couple of days I am an asshole! LOL! Hey...at least I admit it.    I guess I am an alcoholic too, but "choose not to drink".      Becks wrote: Alcohol abuse and drunk drivers are two of the things that piss me off more than anything! Can't comment on pot, never tried it (never interested me personally LOL). But yeah, especially among teenagers here, alcohol abuse/binge drinking is rife. There was a crash in another part of the country recently where 3 young men died (one was only 16). Their families were saying the weren't what we call boy racers (young guys who do up their cars, and spend their evenings driving around being assholes). They also engage is risky behaviour such as drinking and driving. Which is why many eyebrows were raised when a picture was published of the 16 year olds casket being carried out of church, COVERED in beer labels. WTF sort of message is that sending about alcohol!      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Yes...alcohol is far more dangerous than smoking pot.  I don't care if pot gets legalized but I would like to see them "decriminalize" pot. That is what they should do. But going back to alcohol....yes it is way more serious and dangerous than pot.  Have somebody drink a fifth of alcohol and have someone else smoke an eighth of weed and see wich one drives better! lol! I'd take the guy that just smoked an eighth than the drunk stumbling idiot that just drank the fifth!!      Dissident Deceiver wrote: Mushrooms... LOL! Believe it or not, but mushrooms used to be legal in Holland. You could buy them in special drugstores. It became illegal about a year ago after a few individuals jumped off a bridge after they had used mushrooms.  Did you know that alcohol is a harddrug? It's far more dangerous than pot.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Yeah thats for me too.....I love smoking "good" buds.....and up here in Washington State...we have some of the best............ And yeah people who smoke weed and do nothing all day and do nothing in life should give it up........its a waste for them. I don't look a smoking pot as doing drugs. I've done "drugs" and pot is a "joke".  I used to sniff crystal meth....and some  cocaine....... I used to take acid in the 80's....I've done mushrooms,synthetic heroin......but that is in the past.....the last time I did any drugs was the summer of 1995.....14 years ago!!   So all I do now is simply smoke my weed and I am happy! LOL!  No alcohol though!!!      Sinner Rider wrote: Funny.. that is my choice as well.. I'm what you call an active pothead. I still clean my house, cook everynight and walk my dogs all while enjoying some good green.  I will enjoy beer and wine and sometimes for birthdays and New years, I get wasted. I wake up feeling like crap and ask myself why I did that..  Much more enjoyable with Mary Jane..      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: I don't drink "at all".    I smoke pot though...have since I was 15 and I'm 39 now.   Pot over alchohol anyday. And I am NOT one of these burned out stoners who can't think for chist's sake....weed has no slouching effect on me whatsoever. But I am done dealing with people who absuse alchohol..........one word for them.................."GROWN THE FUCK UP".      Sinner Rider wrote: Couldn't agree more... I almost walked out of the bar job cause I was so sick of stupid wasted people. And stupid men hitting on me, that would start at about 8pm... 2am and the same dude is sitting at the bar still trying to take me home... I'm the cut off queen at the bar.. if they look too drunk or keep bothering me. I would just cut them off. I'm very glad that I don't work there! Its been just 2 weeks and my house is clean again and I get laundry done, plus I get to spend time with my dogs.. One full time job is enough!  Hey I will drink beer or wine.. just not in large quanties...      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: I don't mind if someone has a casual drink or two....but I am SICK of dealing with "drunk people".....I don't deal with drunk people to often,but even once a year is too much for me. I'm "DONE" with alchoholic people.   Take your booze and go F#*# yourselves with it.      Sinner Rider wrote: Funny that is exact reason I just quite my 2nd job as a bartender. Almost 4 years in a biker bar, and I called it quits. I'm very sick of drunk people.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote:  "ALCOHOLISM".               I am fucking sick and fucking tired of "drunks".....people getting "fucked up" that can't handle it. If you want to ruin your life,......go ahead...just leave me the fuck out of it. I'm so tired of people that drink..... J.D. hasn't had a drink in over 2 years now and I don't EVER plan on having one for the rest of my life.

A casket carried out of a "church" with..."beer labels on it"???  Wow...you would NEVER see that in the U.S.A........not saying that I would like to see that...but just saying that I don't think they would even allow that over here.

And yeah.....what kind of a message is that sendijng to other teens out there who are beginning to drink?  Not a smart move on thier part thats for sure.  Drinking and driving is the worst thing you can do in life no questions.

And I think "marijuana"  is not that popular in New Zealand is it Becks? It seems that in Europe....drinking is the #1 thing to do or #1 choice over marijuana.   Also.....not everywhere in the world do you get "quality" marijuna.

I know in Denver Colorado over here in the states.....the marijuna is absolutely "shit" and its nothing more than home grown dirt weed is what we like to call it.My girlfriend is from Denver so she knows.

I live in Seattle Washington and here we are known for some of the best marijuna in the whole U.S.A. ....sometimes its hard to find but not that often......everywhere we go we always run into great marijuna!

But that might be why some countries don't smoke as much weed because it sucks and I wouldn't smoke dirt shit weed either...if thats all I had to smoke than I would quit.

I am an "addict" because if I don't smoke weed for a couple of days I am an asshole! LOL! Hey...at least I admit it.    I guess I am an alcoholic too, but "choose not to drink".

		Becks wrote:
		Alcohol abuse and drunk drivers are two of the things that piss me off more than anything! Can't comment on pot, never tried it (never interested me personally LOL). But yeah, especially among teenagers here, alcohol abuse/binge drinking is rife. There was a crash in another part of the country recently where 3 young men died (one was only 16). Their families were saying the weren't what we call boy racers (young guys who do up their cars, and spend their evenings driving around being assholes). They also engage is risky behaviour such as drinking and driving. Which is why many eyebrows were raised when a picture was published of the 16 year olds casket being carried out of church, COVERED in beer labels. WTF sort of message is that sending about alcohol!      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Yes...alcohol is far more dangerous than smoking pot.  I don't care if pot gets legalized but I would like to see them "decriminalize" pot. That is what they should do. But going back to alcohol....yes it is way more serious and dangerous than pot.  Have somebody drink a fifth of alcohol and have someone else smoke an eighth of weed and see wich one drives better! lol! I'd take the guy that just smoked an eighth than the drunk stumbling idiot that just drank the fifth!!      Dissident Deceiver wrote: Mushrooms... LOL! Believe it or not, but mushrooms used to be legal in Holland. You could buy them in special drugstores. It became illegal about a year ago after a few individuals jumped off a bridge after they had used mushrooms.  Did you know that alcohol is a harddrug? It's far more dangerous than pot.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Yeah thats for me too.....I love smoking "good" buds.....and up here in Washington State...we have some of the best............ And yeah people who smoke weed and do nothing all day and do nothing in life should give it up........its a waste for them. I don't look a smoking pot as doing drugs. I've done "drugs" and pot is a "joke".  I used to sniff crystal meth....and some  cocaine....... I used to take acid in the 80's....I've done mushrooms,synthetic heroin......but that is in the past.....the last time I did any drugs was the summer of 1995.....14 years ago!!   So all I do now is simply smoke my weed and I am happy! LOL!  No alcohol though!!!      Sinner Rider wrote: Funny.. that is my choice as well.. I'm what you call an active pothead. I still clean my house, cook everynight and walk my dogs all while enjoying some good green.  I will enjoy beer and wine and sometimes for birthdays and New years, I get wasted. I wake up feeling like crap and ask myself why I did that..  Much more enjoyable with Mary Jane..      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: I don't drink "at all".    I smoke pot though...have since I was 15 and I'm 39 now.   Pot over alchohol anyday. And I am NOT one of these burned out stoners who can't think for chist's sake....weed has no slouching effect on me whatsoever. But I am done dealing with people who absuse alchohol..........one word for them.................."GROWN THE FUCK UP".      Sinner Rider wrote: Couldn't agree more... I almost walked out of the bar job cause I was so sick of stupid wasted people. And stupid men hitting on me, that would start at about 8pm... 2am and the same dude is sitting at the bar still trying to take me home... I'm the cut off queen at the bar.. if they look too drunk or keep bothering me. I would just cut them off. I'm very glad that I don't work there! Its been just 2 weeks and my house is clean again and I get laundry done, plus I get to spend time with my dogs.. One full time job is enough!  Hey I will drink beer or wine.. just not in large quanties...      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: I don't mind if someone has a casual drink or two....but I am SICK of dealing with "drunk people".....I don't deal with drunk people to often,but even once a year is too much for me. I'm "DONE" with alchoholic people.   Take your booze and go F#*# yourselves with it.      Sinner Rider wrote: Funny that is exact reason I just quite my 2nd job as a bartender. Almost 4 years in a biker bar, and I called it quits. I'm very sick of drunk people.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote:  "ALCOHOLISM".               I am fucking sick and fucking tired of "drunks".....people getting "fucked up" that can't handle it. If you want to ruin your life,......go ahead...just leave me the fuck out of it. I'm so tired of people that drink..... J.D. hasn't had a drink in over 2 years now and I don't EVER plan on having one for the rest of my life.