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[ron h] Sunday, April 12, 2009 9:35:32 PM 
It's ok S, I didn't care for it the first 50 times I heard either
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Sunday, April 12, 2009 4:52:26 PM 
Yeah Becks,I think that Angel Of Retribution is better than Rocka Rolla,Sin After Sin,Stained Class,Hell Bent For Leather,Point Of Entry,Defenders Of The Faith,Turbo,Ram It Down,Jugulator,Demolition,and Nostradamus.....I would only say that Sad Wings Of Destiny,British Steel,Screaming For Vengeance and Painkiller is better.
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[Becks] Sunday, April 12, 2009 4:48:24 PM 
Hehe I'd struggle to pick a top 5, but I agree JD, AoR is a FANTASTIC album!
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Sunday, April 12, 2009 4:27:27 PM 
Lochness should of been released on Nostradamus!!  It does'nt belong on Angel Of Retribution in my opinion,but if ron likes it than right on for him! lol! Just not my idea of a good Judas Priest track,thats all.
Angel of Retribution is still one of Priest's top 5 albums in my opinion....the first 9 songs on this album are essential!
[spapad] Sunday, April 12, 2009 8:47:40 AM 
Nothing is wrong with it. Just not my taste.
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[ron h] Sunday, April 12, 2009 8:42:11 AM 
What's wrong with Lochness??
[spapad] Saturday, April 11, 2009 4:31:46 PM 
J.D. is right MMJP! All except Loch are astounding tracks! BUY IT, BUY IT!!!  
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Saturday, April 11, 2009 4:08:05 PM 


METALMANJP I'm "beggin ya" to buy this album...I'm beggin ya!  

1.Judas Rising
2.Deal With The Devil
3.Revolution
4.Worth Fighting For
5.Demonizer
6.Wheels Of Fire
7.Angel
8.Hell Rider
9.Elegy
                            
These first 9 tracks on this album are totally essential and a must have Judas Priest man,....the 10th and final track "Lochness" is the only "weak link" on this LP.

But don't let this discourage you,these fiirst 9 songs on Angel Of Retribution are some of the best Judas Priest ever recorded. You won't be disappointed. I believe that "Judas Rising"...."Demonizer"....and.."Hell Rider"..are 3 of Judas Priest's best songs ever recorded....these 3 tracks can easily match up with any Judas Priest song in the band's 16 studio album career.and that is a huge statement!  Don't wait much longer to buy this album METALMANJP!!!  


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[Deep Freeze] Saturday, April 11, 2009 10:01:40 AM 
Exactly. HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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[spapad] Friday, April 10, 2009 10:14:26 PM 
Did it begin,..........Dear Father Guido!
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[Deep Freeze] Friday, April 10, 2009 9:40:26 PM 
Went to church today. There was no priest available so I left a note.....BWWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
[spapad] Friday, April 10, 2009 9:17:43 PM 
I found it very Biographical!
I don't have a Blue ray, I'm lucky I have a DVD player at all! LOL Ah, Spa is poor this year! Taxes, bills, etc, it all adds up!  Too bad my pay doesn't go up with it! I'm going to have to budget this year for certain. LOL

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[guidogodoy] Friday, April 10, 2009 9:12:27 PM 
I HAVE noticed it, in fact.

Should you get the latest version, get the Blu-ray. I believe it has Blackout (Scorps) on it and I can downgrade it even if you don't have a blu-ray player.

Too much $ for just one song. I'd do the work, though! HAAAAA!!!!
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[spapad] Friday, April 10, 2009 9:06:27 PM 

Have you noticed how strangely autobiographical it was at the time he wrote it? The Whole Album Rocks! I hated Twist the first time I heard it and now, it's one of my favorite songs on the CD!!
I can put that CD in my car and play it for a month straight and never tire of it!
I've got to get Rio, I have not done it thusfar.


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[guidogodoy] Friday, April 10, 2009 9:03:01 PM 
I've said it before. Sent freakin' CHILLS down my spine first time I heard it.

Oddly enough, got Halford / Rio III playing as I type.
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[spapad] Friday, April 10, 2009 8:59:42 PM 
Resssssuurrrrreeccccttttioonnnnnn!!!!! Is the best damn thing I've heard in years! LOVE IT!!!
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[guidogodoy] Friday, April 10, 2009 8:53:18 PM 
I was also one to boycott all Ripper-era stuff. More out of respect than anything else.

Resurection kicked my ass back into Halford and, of course, all since he rejoined Priest is gold!! AOR a solid buy.
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[spapad] Friday, April 10, 2009 8:49:10 PM 
You can always come back to the Family right MGD!?!
That's all that matters!

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[mgdman] Friday, April 10, 2009 8:47:00 PM 
Don't feel alone! I did not listen to the Ripper stuff either,
I've still only heard the ones on the Metaology Disc! Angel is 
a great disc you need to get it if you don't have it!
Keep the Faith !! 

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[ron h] Friday, April 10, 2009 6:41:03 PM 
You shouldn't feel alone there, bud...
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[METALMANJP] Friday, April 10, 2009 8:25:24 AM 
Back to my roots !
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[spapad] Thursday, April 09, 2009 6:07:16 PM 
That's OK MMJP! you may have got side tracked but, but your still a life long fan!
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[METALMANJP] Thursday, April 09, 2009 8:41:23 AM 
Forgive me Priest fans for I have sinned.

I have to admit something, I kinda gave up on Priest back when Halford left the band . I didn't start  listening to them from that time until just before Nostradamus was released. I've never heard any of the ripper alblums and I've never heard Angel of Retribution ! 

I feel better now that I got that off my chest !
[J.D. DIAMOND] Tuesday, March 10, 2009 12:29:26 AM 
Thank you Ron,and it does help hearing opinions from experienced parents as yourself.Thanks for all the advise bro,you rock!!  As you and Deep Freeze have told me...I guess if I didn't care...I would never feel as if I've "failed".
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[ron h] Monday, March 09, 2009 6:29:44 PM 
...lol...that's funny JD...hey man, I'm just a parent and a Priestfan and a hard worker like anyone else here...I do tend to be a little (over) passionate when it comes to those 3 things, but they're all I've got...best of luck to you, mate!!
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Monday, March 09, 2009 6:18:39 AM 
Thanks ronhartsell,I won't lose the faith and never give up!!  Hey,..I remember I was starting to get afraid of you ronhartsell!! lol! Thanks for the input my friend!
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[Return_of_Darth_Painkiller_0870] Monday, March 09, 2009 4:55:05 AM 
I'm glad my kids are still young.  Skimming through the previous posts from this weekend show me that I've got it good right now!
[ron h] Monday, March 09, 2009 4:43:59 AM 
JD...you're going to be fine...you have an eye on what's going on and that's more than a lot of parents these days...I haven't always lived with my kids, and at their ages I never will again (unless something tragic happens), and it's a tough situation to be in, no doubt...but you have never given up and that's a testament to your love for him...and your love for him is what makes the pain hurt even worse...I don't remember if you mentioned his age or not, but as any parent would say, as long as you two are drawing breath it's never too late...he's got your blood in his veins, so some of your smarts has made it as well...it's a never ending journey my friend, don't lose the faith!!!
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Sunday, March 08, 2009 9:56:02 PM 
Thanks Freeze,I appreciate that. I understand that I'm on the right track and as Head Banger said there is no instruction manual,its still kinda therapeutic to hear advice from others..... especially your advise Freeze.
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[Deep Freeze] Sunday, March 08, 2009 8:50:46 PM 
...its just frustrating at times ya know?  
Yes, my friend. I do know. It is frustrating, annoying, painful, frightening, confusing, tedious and so on. But they are our children and we love them. There is nothing you can do about it. I am proud of you, JD. Stay strong. Be a good dad and lead the way........ by always doing the right thing.
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[Head banger] Sunday, March 08, 2009 8:47:04 PM 
you can only do the best you can do.  life does not come with an instruction manual.  make it up as you go along, and learn.  frustrating as all get out most of the time
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Sunday, March 08, 2009 4:48:08 PM 
Thanks Freeze and thank you too Bev.  Head banger,I hear your point of view as well.   Yes... I suppose your right Freeze,well...I know your right.And as you know I've never givin up and I am doing the right thing but why does it still feel sometimes as if I failed? It seems that if I could turn back time a few notches I could of done something else differently but when I go to think of what....there is nothing,I did do everything I could at that time...its just frustrating at times ya know?  


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[Head banger] Sunday, March 08, 2009 10:15:42 AM 
your right, people dont expect actual work.  manual labour??  nope.  might have more than 40 hours a week.  nope.  no AC, nope.  drink tap water?  nope

I think that a lot of people are in line for a serious wake up.
you worked, to suport school.  when your out of school, you will work again.  nothing at all wrong with that.
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[Deep Freeze] Sunday, March 08, 2009 9:30:25 AM 
You're right, Bev. JD, this is another common mistake. YOU are not at fault here and it is not YOU that is failing!!! There is no shame in admitting that you have tried and it is not working. In fact, the only shame is in "giving up". NEVER stop trying, my friend. That does not mean you have to give him money or anything else! It means you demonstrate how to be a man. You stand up and say, "NO MORE." You go to work. You pay your bills. You are there if he needs advice. You do the right thing.
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[Bev] Saturday, March 07, 2009 8:58:17 PM 
That will be enough of that ... Does your gut tell you you have failed as a parent?  Or are you judging yourself by someone else's standards (which I find hard to believe)?  Stop it now, JD!  Kids sense this forboding feeling of failure as a weakness and will feed off it like noone's business.  Do you see the passion you inspire in the young men here?!?  Failure ... that's bullshit -  Someone stop me ...
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[spapad] Saturday, March 07, 2009 7:27:16 PM 
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Saturday, March 07, 2009 7:18:09 PM 
Your absolutely right Freeze and you as well ronhartsell.I feel I have "failed" as a parent,and maybe I have beings my kid did'nt live with me even though I was around almost every weekend till he was 13. It doesn't matter it's not the same.But you do have to "let go" and let them make thier own mistakes especially if they will not listen.
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[Deep Freeze] Saturday, March 07, 2009 11:30:20 AM 
Oh, absolutely Bev! How about the parent that was "never there"? The parent that chose drugs or alcohol and divorced the spouse to pursue a life of decadence? Sure. One day, he or she finds an opportuntiy to re-introduce into the child's life and over compensates by allowing the kid anything! But, you see, THIS is on the parent! This is what parenting really is! One must overcome one's inate sense of self and think of the child. A most arduous prospect, I'm afraid. Far too easy to try to live vicariously through an offspriing.

I realize it is not a black and white issue. Each child is different and really the only reason I have spoke up is because I care about JD and his struggle. Clearly, it is of great importance to him, as he has been posting about it now on a regular basis. I feel for him. I know with what he is dealing. The Princess has many of the same problems with her two boys. I see the pain. The difficulties. It is hard.  Most all of you know that I have a daughter but she is grown and has her own family. I do not think I could do what she does with those young boys. My patience is just not that strong.
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[_strat_] Saturday, March 07, 2009 11:23:50 AM 
Anti social? James Dean? Britney Spears is more anti social than him... Or maybe you thought James Dean after the crash?
[Bev] Saturday, March 07, 2009 11:07:02 AM 
Here is something to consider:  Could it be that sometimes we as parents try to over compensate - where one's own parents may have been authoritarian we take an altogether passive approach or vice versa?

Thank goodness I have an aquarian for a son,  He is very self-assured (in a good way) and independent, I have to consciously remind myself that he is only 15.  I am confident that if I left here tomorrow, he is very capable of taking care of himself ... (not planning anything, but you never know).

On that note,  got a teen that wants to download some more aircraft for his FS!

Later all ...
[Deep Freeze] Saturday, March 07, 2009 10:56:45 AM 
I think you do understand, Ron! You're right. Adaption is the key because times have changed (I mentioned that as 'social evolution').  Depending on the kind of parent you are, it certainly can be "good or bad".  You mentioned being taught respect. Seems to me that is not the "norm" nowadays. Of course, I have mentioned often that we see "role models" and "famous" people that live and or promote a lifestyle wherein criminal activity or anti-social behavior is presented as "cool". Not too far from our day, I'm afraid. (Anyone here remember James Dean??) However, the anti-social hero of days gone by had a soul and was , at heart,  a good person that had a tortured inner-self, yearning to be "loved". Now, we see that the criminal is a hero for his actions and disdain for anything good. "Beating the man", as it were.  That behavior is glorified in ways we could never have imagined when we watched Fonda on his motorcycle as he "stuck it to the man". (Please see Grand Theft Auto for examples).

My biggest concern is that children learn a certain behavior. They are taught (by their parents) how to treat others BY THEIR PARENTS ACTIONS...or inaction. You may not be able to keep your children off drugs or away from gangs BUT, you can certainly NEVER allow it. You see? By "doing the right thing" you teach children how to behave. If they do something wrong, you do NOT hide it, or deny it. You FACE it and accept the consequences. A parent's response to adversity is the greatest teacher.
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[ron h] Saturday, March 07, 2009 10:19:42 AM 
I'm not sure I understand exactly what you mean by "we, as parents, try to project ourselves and our childhood on our children".  But if it's what I think it means, that can be both good and bad.  If my dad were a spouse abusing alcoholic and I grew to be like him and then my son picked it up from me, that would be bad.  I was raised to 'respect my elders at all times' and 'corporal punishment' ensured I obeyed that command.  As a parent I taught all the kids to do the same but I also explained to them why it was important to do so.  They learned that what came back at them as a result of not showing proper respect was it's own 'just reward', so to speak.  As times change a parent has to recognize and adapt to it or the kids will eat you alive (lol).  There are a lot of things out there for a parent to worry about these days along with the duties of parenting, and it's easy to get into a routine and the days just run into each other and the next thing you know 3 years have gone by in the blink of an eye.  It's a tough job, but it can be done.  I see so many young ladies with kids living at home with mom and dad and still out there every weekend going to the bars carrying on with their lives like they forgot they're mom's.  Fortunately  'grandma and pa' can be there if they're going to carry on like that, but where's the responsibilty at?  Are grandma and pa enablers?  For every kid that makes 'it', how many don't?? 
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[Deep Freeze] Saturday, March 07, 2009 8:58:20 AM 
It's funny, all this talk about kids and their behavior. Sometimes I think we, as parents, try to project ourselves and our childhood on our children. We often forget that there has been a remarkable social evolution in our society which has, of course, affected values. I suppose it happens to each generation. Having said this, there is a constant that remains and THAT would be what we call "doing the right thing".

I recall my youth. Working for money to buy the things my parents did not give me was just what we did. My grandparents owned a small cafe and I worked there every summer. More importantly, there was school. In our family, there was NEVER any discussion as to whether or not you went to college. It wasn't optional. You finished high school and you went to college. That was that. It is difficult for me to imagine a childhood wherein I would be thinking about a full time job and "being on my own" as a teenager. School was all there was.  Nonetheless, my parents made sure that I "did the right thing". What does that mean, exactly?

We all know that, when one commits a crime, one pays a price. There is consequence for action.  In life, there is also consequence for inaction. The reckoning may come slower, but it does come. Far too many parents feel that it is their "job" to continually support their children. By support, I mean financial. I mean a place to live. I mean feeding them. All of which, at some point, should come to an end. As a child, the right thing means learning to be an adult.  We all learn how to be treated. Children learn this from their parents. Those that are coddled, given money, sheltered from responsibility and whatnot learn dependancy. Parents think they are doing the child a favor, but they are sadly mistaken. There comes a point were a parent must realize that "helping" is actually enabling.  
One of the most difficult things for a parent to do is to let go. Refuse to keep "helping". If a child has spent his/her lifetime learning dependancy, this moment is all the more difficult. If a child has learned that work and responsibility are keys to adulthood, it is less difficult. Doing the right thing. What a concept!
[ron h] Saturday, March 07, 2009 5:31:28 AM 
Sure did...I believed that if you didn't get them while they were young, it would be too difficult later when they got older...but it comes with a price as well...I was an actual parent, I wasn't my kids' friend...I think too many parents want to be their kids friend instead of preparing them for lifes challenges, which means you are generally unpopular most of the time...and they needed to learn how to respect and the many forms of it... that, to me, was really important as I believe my kids are a reflection of their parents, especially when we weren't around...

...every kid is different and some times they have to fail in order to succeed...I never got the impression that you didn't care, but I think you see the need for things to get worse before you can make a difference...I'm sure when that time comes you'll be ready and willing...he doesn't know yet how lucky he'll be to have you waiting to help him when he really needs you the most!!
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Saturday, March 07, 2009 5:14:10 AM 
Yeah,thanks Bev.  Yeah,its the only way he will learn is to fall down first.
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[Bev] Saturday, March 07, 2009 5:03:06 AM 
Yeah, JD.  Made me nervous at first so I became a buffer not a barrier between he and our son.  Dad is a hardworking guy, don't get me wrong.  Like many (myself included) he grew up in weird unstable environment.  I think it's been hard for Dad to keep quiet at times, thinking son should be doing more.  But I like to believe he is equally proud of how things have turned out with his support.

Proud to know you'll be there for your son at the end of the day.  Sounds like it may be a hard fall that brings him 'round.  My best to you.
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Saturday, March 07, 2009 4:52:52 AM 

Don't get me wrong,when my kid fails and pulls his head out....I will be there to pick up the pieces.But its gonna be a while.I am not a violent parent or anything by all means,and I am not unfair by all means,he is really that delusional right now.     Hey ronhartsell,it sounds like your kids had a grip on reality from the sounds of it. Thats great to hear.Does that mean "you" had to kick some butt when they were younger?  I'm starting to be afraid of you ronhartsell!!! lol!


Bev,that is unreasonable for him to make the kid walk up to the store for an unworthy reason I agree.

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[Bev] Saturday, March 07, 2009 4:47:58 AM 
I bet you met lots of interesting people working this job, lots of families on vacation, having (or trying to) a good time. Fun people watching too, I'd imagine.  Good for you, Vail : )
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[Bev] Saturday, March 07, 2009 4:31:19 AM 

As far as it is possible, while my son is in school, he is focusing on grades so he can get whatever job he wants after he graduates.  Having said that, I think he's a pretty well balanced kid.  He still does chores to earn allowance.  He's not old enough to get a job, legally.  The past couple of years he's done community service at the aquarium or humane society.  It looks good on a college application.  Until he is legally permitted to work, he earns extra cash working with his Dad, who is a sailboat rigger and sailing instructor.  They sometimes work together on the two rental properties we own.  I don't think Harley would work for him if he was scared of him.  Of course, I've never told him the story of how he got pissed at his oldest son, Harley's step-brother, and, because he forgot to ask his Dad they were out of milk his Dad made him walk a couple miles to the 7/11 in the snow at 11:00 pm to get it ... eldest was 7 years old at the time.  I think that's plain stupid, and he must have come home drunk to make his kid do that ... stupid, if you ask me.  Thank goodness he has evolved a little as a parent ; )

[ron h] Saturday, March 07, 2009 4:12:30 AM 
I guess I'm one of the lucky ones...the eldest step-daughter is married with a daughter and getting along great, wonderful guy she chose...my step-son is an asst. mngr., engaged to a wonderful lass...and my daughter just graduated H.S, mid-term and has had a job for the last year and is going to school part-time to prepare for fall classes...so I have no complaints...but I totally get where you're coming from...kids want to 'act' so grown up at a really young age but don't want any of the responsibilties that go with it...like they're owed a life...you have to make your life, it usually doesn't fall in your lap...and I do beieve a majority of it has to do with the parents (or the lack thereof)...
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Saturday, March 07, 2009 2:59:41 AM 
Wow,so I'm not the only one who noticed that these kids of today are indeed getting lazy.It does stem from thier parents,not always but most of the time.My kid does not live with me,he never has and since he turned 13 years old he went down hill.Now he is living at my worthless loser sister's house and roams between there and his sleezy mother's house and avoids my house.....why? Because he is afraid of me right now because the next time I see him,my foot is going soooo far up his ass he will never get it out!  I'm going to sit back and watch him fail,and to tell ya the honest truth....I am enjoying it.   If some of you out here are one of these lazy kids....get off your &*%#!@* asses and do something!! 


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[guidogodoy] Friday, March 06, 2009 11:09:41 PM 
Bread? English muffins! You'll never go back!! 
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[Vaillant 3.0] Friday, March 06, 2009 10:27:18 PM 
BWAAAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!! That reminds me...I gotta buy more bread soon...can't eat Boysenberry preserves by itself, you know.
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[spapad] Friday, March 06, 2009 10:26:11 PM 

Vail! you are no softie and never have been! You have drive and determination that us "old folks" like to see!


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[guidogodoy] Friday, March 06, 2009 10:22:47 PM 
I pardon thee. Granted absolution. Why? BOYSENBERRY!!!!!!!
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[Vaillant 3.0] Friday, March 06, 2009 10:14:07 PM 
Ooookkkaaaaayyyyyy...Looks like I'll have to do a double-confession:

1). No, I don't have a job right now... I'm in college now and living off Federal Student Aid... slaughter me if you wish...

2). HOWEVER!!! I did have a summer job last year...which was working at an amusement park called Knott's Berry Farm...operating kiddie rides...
While it was fun operating the control panel of several rides, the hours were a bit exhausting (12 hrs a day, six days a week), but at least I decided to stay and give it a go for the season, unlike other trainees who would walk out after only half a day's worth of work. All the rides were outdoors, so I was pretty much washing my work uniform everyday because I would sweat so much. Had to quit though, since this amusement park was in one region in the state and my college is 500 miles away. Still, it felt good getting that envelope from the Payroll office every Friday and looking at what was achieved in the long run: money, of course! For food and other small necessities during the school year. 

I know I'll probably sound like a hypocrite, but I think the problem with my generation is that most imagine a job as having something to do with being in an office or something else less laborous, which is why many of us are in college in the first place, along with making parents proud. We're a bunch of softies, in other words.
[spapad] Friday, March 06, 2009 8:55:06 PM 
Coal made a good lunch! Just left you with black lips!  Went out to the railroad tracks to pick up a few pieces for lunch and the small stove in the old school room. I'm sure I was priviledged, I bet you didn't have a stove!
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[Deep Freeze] Friday, March 06, 2009 8:49:03 PM 
Paint?? PAINT?!?!?! We didn't get no stinkin' paint!!! Paint was for rich kids! We had to bleed on the walls........
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[spapad] Friday, March 06, 2009 8:44:56 PM 

Were you lucky enough to get a morsel of lead paint off the pealing  school walls for lunch?


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[Deep Freeze] Friday, March 06, 2009 8:39:35 PM 
Sweater? SWEATER??!?!? We didn't get no stinkin' SWEATERS!!!! We suffered in the snow while walking to school, UPHILL...BOTH ways and we were grateful!!!!!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by spapad from Friday, March 06, 2009 8:36:44 PM)
[spapad] Friday, March 06, 2009 8:36:44 PM 
Did you save the lint up to create yarn for that one and only winter sweater each year? LOL I mean 1 sweater for all of you, of course, had to take turns going out in the cold didn't you?
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Deep Freeze from Friday, March 06, 2009 8:31:42 PM)
[Deep Freeze] Friday, March 06, 2009 8:31:42 PM 
Ate wood and rock??!?!?!?  BWAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAA!!!!!!!!! MAN!! My brothers and I had to share LINT and I thought WE had it bad................
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by guidogodoy from Friday, March 06, 2009 7:41:48 PM)
[spapad] Friday, March 06, 2009 7:57:26 PM 
In thirty years. Oh, don't make me think that far! 74! I might need that microchip brain implant! All I know is they better damn well have a Heavy Metal appriciation room in those old folk homes if I'm ever cursed with that. Personally I would prefer to be shot out of kindness, if I ever have to go there. I hate Bingo!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by guidogodoy from Friday, March 06, 2009 7:53:12 PM)
[guidogodoy] Friday, March 06, 2009 7:53:12 PM 
HAAAAAA!!!!! Ah, the good ol' days.

Imagine how we'll be in another thirty years. "You had a microchip brain implant?" LUXURY!!! In my day we had to remember things!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by spapad from Friday, March 06, 2009 7:48:48 PM)
[spapad] Friday, March 06, 2009 7:48:48 PM 
Well, you got me beat Guid, I never ate rocks. LOL I did however live off of "home fries" because a bag of potatoes and a bottle of oil and ketchup was all that was required and you'd have enough to make for days! Worship the "fry Daddy".
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by guidogodoy from Friday, March 06, 2009 7:41:48 PM)
[guidogodoy] Friday, March 06, 2009 7:41:48 PM 
DAMNIT, I worked all my way through highschool and college. The college job SUCKED! Six days a week at least (Futon King of East Lansing...yup, that was me!). Really hard times but I made it through with dual degrees and absolutely NO debt. Even turned down financial aid as I figured that there were people more deserving than me. Kids nowadays (shakes fist violently).

Oh yeah, and I ate wood and ROCK and was happy to do so!!!
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[spapad] Friday, March 06, 2009 7:34:28 PM 
I agree that it may seem that kids are lazy these days compared to the older generations before, and many are lazy because Mom and Dad have not asked them to do anything. Kids will do what is expected of them. I was expected to do chores for allowance when I was young. My daughter is now getting to the age that she is going to soon be introduced to the "washing machine" and the art of dishwashing. She just turned twelve so it's about time to ask more of her.
By the time I was 14 I had a summer paper delivery route, and at 15 I got an evening job at a restaurant and still kept my grades up. My first paycheck was 68.00 dollars and all I could think about was how rich I was! LOL Album shopping!
While today, When my daughter reaches highschool, I would not want her working as much as I did during school because to prepare for a good collage career these days you need harder classes than what I took to get by. BUT, come summertime, I would rather see her working and making money and getting that sense of accomplishment that comes with earning money, than out getting into trouble.

  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Becks from Friday, March 06, 2009 2:40:40 PM)
[_strat_] Friday, March 06, 2009 5:20:21 PM 
Oh, I understand. I kinda like my job too. Its my proffesion (graphic design), I chose it and I like it. But 8 hrs straight (ok, ok... With lunch and cig pauses in between) and Im dying to do something else by the end.

Well, they will have to step out and give it a go sooner or later... Parents wont be there forever, and even if they were, I dont think many of them would be willing to just give money to a 30 - 40 year old "kid".

And dont even get me started on the economy... The company that I work in is owned by foreigners. As soon as the shit hit the fan, they started moving the production to their country, and by the looks of it we will have layoffs pretty soon. Not that my job is threatened (it is only meant to be till summer), but it isnt exactly a pleasant thought.

In any case... Its pretty late now, I gotta go to sleep. See you all tomorrow.
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Friday, March 06, 2009 5:10:56 PM 
Yeah strat,most all of us don't "enjoy" going to "work" but we do it anyways for $money...the name of the game. I am a "shot peen operator". I work controlling the RPMs on a big wheelabrator which is kind of like sand blasting but its not sand blast it's shot peen....a method which strenghthens parts(usually airplane parts but not all are airplane parts)just like the old hammersmiths heating up swords and folding them over and over ect...   I actually "like" my job while I'm there...its kind of rewarding to peen all these parts and I do a ton of paperwork at the same time....time flys.I'd much rather be doing something I really enjoy obviously music but really,shot peen is pretty cool. 

Over here in the states,I think kids are becoming too lazy and are to afraid to step out there and give it a go.I know our economy is turned upsidedown right now but thats because of fucking George W.Bush for 8 years,he fucked up our economy but thankfully "Barack Obama" has been elected!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   If  John McCain were elected,I would of lost my job by the end of the year no doubt...out company is already struggling to survive as it is.   [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by _strat_ from Friday, March 06, 2009 4:35:18 PM)
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[_strat_] Friday, March 06, 2009 4:35:18 PM 
IDK... Over here most young people (or people who are still in school/college) work. Theres only so much money that mommy and daddy can (or will) give. Im almost 20, I work. I dont particulary enjoy it, but money is money...
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[Head banger] Friday, March 06, 2009 3:47:00 PM 
I know that most kids I see are slackers, and I cant stand it.

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[J.D. DIAMOND] Friday, March 06, 2009 2:59:34 PM 
Fuckin' A Becks!!!  I agree with you 100% and good for you for not being lazy!!  I can't believe these freakin' kids of today....I'm not saying all kids are like this but I'll bet at least 75% of kids today have this attitude that they can just get money from thier parents.
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Becks from Friday, March 06, 2009 2:40:40 PM)
[Becks] Friday, March 06, 2009 2:40:40 PM 
I agree with the sentiment that kids are getting lazy. I'm 24 and have been working in some form or another since I was about 12 - paper runs etc. Kids these days think money grows on trees and don't understand you've got to EARN IT, in the real world it doesn't get handed out on a silver platter.
[J.D. DIAMOND] Friday, March 06, 2009 2:35:11 PM 
Yes Head Banger,your right and that is just palin right out bullshit ya know? I could'nt imagine being 18 and not having a drivers licence,a job/or work odd jobs under the table,ect...if you are 13 years old I could understand but 17-18-19-20-21-22 years old and being like this? Wow,kids today are really becoming "lazy".  If you were like that back when I was that young(1986-1990)...other friends would'nt want to hang around you because they would get tired of always paying for you,ect...none of us(my circle of friends back then) were like this,we all worked because we wanted drugs,alcohol, metal albums/CDs,metal shirts,go to concerts..ect...not that I'm encouraging kids to buy/do drugs/alcohol but thats what we did and had to work for it. 


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[Head banger] Friday, March 06, 2009 2:26:06 PM 
for a lot of people, kids are expected to be slackers.  when thats your expectation, guess what happens.
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Friday, March 06, 2009 2:17:02 PM 
I would like to know how many of you kids out there who are between 16-21 years old who "have a job" or work odd jobs for money,even help out your parents around the house who are not lazy??  My kid is turning 19(and lives with my jobless sister) and has no job,ect... when I was that age I mowed lawns,washed cars,ect..for cash because I did not expect my parents to simply "give me cash"   I was never like this, but if I was like that my parents(who are both dead now....I am 38yrs old) would of kicked my ass up between my shoulders so hard I would'nt be able to ever work again!  
[spapad] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 7:52:17 PM 

We are all in this together! We come to this board regardless of experience, age, contacts, orientation, beliefs, countries, language, etc... for one thing and one thing only, "Our" love of Judas Priest! For that I am always proud of each and everyone of us!
Long Live Judas Priest and the friendships we have here!  

Love to all on this board!


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[~ MG_Metalgoddess~] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 6:57:25 PM 
Good for you Bev!!!!   Keep your chin up!! 

Its sad when one is so excited about thier experiances and want to share them with other people, who they can or think they can relate to..   should have to feel that way.... Its just silly. 

I was very fotunate to have had my experiance with The Priest.. once in a lifetime chance. 

Iam so very greatful, to them, and to everyone I have gotten to know through them, Including the Steel Mill team, KK really has a one of kind team working for him!  ANd of course all of my Metal Judas Priest Family.. which I hope you know Includes you, and always has. 

Hugs MG~

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[Bev] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 6:01:41 PM 
Love you ...  Go have fun.... When I feel a little insecure, I'll remember to come back to this thread for smiles.  Thanks!  I really needed that today (((hugs)))
Uncle Guido, Keep yourself well, sir!
[adrianaec_88] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:52:22 PM 
I couldn't agree more with what you've said Spa.. you're totally right
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[ron h] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:51:58 PM 
Bev, I never took you for anything other than a fan of the band...such foolishness...being associated with a member is pretty cool, but that doesn't keep you in a conversation with ppl if you yourself have nothing to offer...and you have plenty...
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[guidogodoy] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:49:23 PM 
I'll chime in with the masses even though you KNOW what I think. While I was proud to know early on about your connection with the band, I was even prouder to be able to call you a friend. I've said it many times...this site is a sadder place without you. I would and HAVE said the same about any true Priest fan.

I'm with the others in that anyone who would think that you are here for anything more than to share in the celebration of the mighty Priest and to enjoy the friends who think likewise is a freakin' loon!

Much love, Auntie B.
[Bev] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:47:48 PM 

Think I needed to just lay the cards out there, than anything.

She is an extremely beautiful young lady!  Have you met her?

Jealousy is a difficult beast to tame, sometimes born from insecurity, sometimes a control issue.  None of us is immune to it.  It's how we deal with it  that makes the difference.  I have also written .. a long time ago, I had my chance.  There is no reason for me to be jealous of anyone.  So that issue is moot.  It's only recently that I am comfortable writing to KK, and that is usually through Jari.  It's not anything personal, usually about something another member has brought up, etc.  lol

I agree.  This board is about "our" band, the whole of the band ... all years ... all members, good, bad, etc.

Metal Love, Susan!


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[Becks] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:37:31 PM 
I concur with Momo and Spa, Bev anyone who goes silly like that is a loony.
[momo] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:34:31 PM 
Bev I never knew you had a connection with a member of the band and if  I did I would never hold a grudge, those who do may be jealous. I do not think of you as less a fan than anyone else on this board. We are all fans regardless of what our knowlege of the band is. Some may have been a fan since the start, some may have dicovered the band today, doesn't matter we are all fans. i think you are one of the nicest people here.
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Bev from Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:20:26 PM)
[spapad] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:32:02 PM 
Bev? Why would we EVER hold something like that against you? The bottom line is your friend was married to Ian, they got on just fine for some time and she has a beautiful daughter. So what, it  may not have turned out to be the best match for her or him. That kind of stuff happens all the time. Myself, I was only marriend 6 years to my X, but look at what I gained! I thought I would never have children but Flora opened me up to a life of love and peace I never knew of!

Anyone who would hold that against you is patently insane,  just like any member of this board being jealous of another member for having a relationship with band members or etc....... That whole line of thought is just not right. We should all be here sharing our experiences, as much as we feel comfortable, and just talking and having a great time! 

That is what this board is for! For Fans of "Our" Band! 

Love to you Bev!
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[Bev] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:20:26 PM 
Hopefully I can let sleeping dogs lie, or at least get this off my chest.

Since letting on about my small, distant, connection ... I have had this uneasy gnawing in the back of my mind that folks somehow hold a grudge toward me by association.  That they don't believe I am a fan, because I am good friends with the woman that married Ian after Sue.  Lots of hardcore Halford fans may see this as an afront, maybe not.  Some may know more than I do about the years I missed while my friend lived in England.  She had her own group of friends.  I only heard from her on holidays, etc.  So I am serious when I say, I don't know anything and am really another fan like the rest of you.  She is still very guarded about those years, refuses to talk to anyone, more out of concern for her daughter's privacy than anything.

So I hope we all can start fresh with that understanding.  I am here to contribute my small bit of politeness, pride, and protection.   And in return try to learn from you all, fill in the gaps that the years that passed have left gaping.

Thanks for reading!
[ron h] Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:16:01 PM 
 BEV???...I'm heeeerrrrrre...
[Bev] Saturday, January 24, 2009 9:45:49 AM 
I went back on my cyber-word.  Apologies.
[devils_child] Wednesday, January 21, 2009 5:58:51 AM 
I second that motion..... I may only still be a youngin' but i know enough to see myself putting walls up.  Won't go into it in detail but basically too many trusts and promises were broken in my childhood which has led me too put "the wall" up... I have to be the one in control basically.. I was on and off with someone for 3 years, end result... I finally let my guard down... but it was too late. So here i am again at the beginning of the cycle... Cruel, but part of life.
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[scorpion01] Sunday, January 11, 2009 11:25:22 PM 

I AGREE WITH YOU FREEZE. WALLS ARE NO GOOD. MY WIFE ALWAYS PUTS THEM UP BETWEEN US DUE TO THINGS THAT HAPPENED IN HER PAST, AND DUE TO THE WAY HER FATHER TREATED HER MOTHER. IT HURTS US QUITE OFTEN AND DIMINISHES WHAT SHOULD BE SOME REAL GOOD TIMES.

I THINK EACH INDIVIDUAL NEEDS TO HANDLE A SITUATION LIKE THIS IN A WAY THEY ARE COMFORTABLE. AND ALTHOUGH I AGREE WITH YOU THAT KEEPING UP BOUNDRIES ARE NO GOOD, I THINK ONCE YOU HAVE BEEN HURT IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO LET YOUR GUARD DOWN IN THE FUTURE. WE MAY KNOW WHAT THE RIGHT THING TO DO IS, BUT HAVE A HARD TIME FOLLOWING THROUGH ON IT. IT CAN BE VERY FRIGHTNING.

WE ARE ALL HUMAN AND WANT TO PROTECT OURSELVES. BUT TO FIND TRUE HAPPINESS WE NEED TO BE OPEN AND HONEST, WHICH CAN LEAD TO HURT. IT'S A VICIOUS CYCLE.


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[Deep Freeze] Sunday, January 11, 2009 9:54:15 AM 
Yeah, well I think that you and I are going to be in the minority on this one, HB!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Sunday, January 11, 2009 9:52:08 AM)
[Head banger] Sunday, January 11, 2009 9:52:08 AM 
well said. 
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Deep Freeze from Sunday, January 11, 2009 9:48:45 AM)
[Deep Freeze] Sunday, January 11, 2009 9:48:45 AM 
Interesting comments. I have mentioned the pain of love often. I think it is a part of life. I have always been the other way, in that I will allow love to find me and I do not create walls. Of course, I have experienced the very pain that you all fear so much. Yet, I am here. I live! I muddled through my darkest hour and I came away a better person. We are all tempered by pain, just as metal is tempered through the flame. Heartbreak is as much a part of living as are death and taxes. I should think that my life would have been far less enjoyable had I avoided finding true love simply out of fear that I could be hurt.
[blood red skies/dreamer [Banned]] Sunday, January 11, 2009 8:54:23 AM 
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[~ MG_Metalgoddess~] Saturday, January 10, 2009 8:59:31 PM 

oh joe,, I can say I feel Love but Iam not in Love... I feel strange saying this but..  I too fell this way.. I dont know if I have found my soul mate... My soul wont let my heart go there...  I have been hurt by people I love my whole life,, and there is no wrecking ball to take down that wall...  I have built this wall so high.. no man will ever get through it.. for me..

E-mail me girl.. Even on my space..   I will chat with ya.. I get down too,, and then I get a temper.. because Iknow it me.. that has the wall the up.. but I never admitt it... sad but true.

 


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[spapad] Saturday, January 10, 2009 6:41:19 PM 
BTW, I confess. Sometimes I am a bitch for no apparent reason! I just get in a bad mood and stay there.
[spapad] Saturday, January 10, 2009 6:39:46 PM 
Joe, I think everyone has those moments of doubt. When they feel they are where they should be at that time in their lives but they can not make the true connection just yet. It's a painful place to be for you and all involved, but eventually you will come to see the things you want as being the the very things you need. Change is hard.  But is makes us all better people.
I'm sorry you lost your soul mate, but there is a window open for you, and all you need to do is walk through it if that is truely what you want.
Much Love Joe!
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[joedraper] Saturday, January 10, 2009 4:43:18 PM 
I love so many people. I'm so afraid of hurting them. I lost my soulmate. Married  a man that was sent from heaven, but at the same time, I don't know how to see him as a gift. I feel hard done by and spoilt, all at the same time. We're so different, but we have created this family together and to end all that would be wrong. I feel lost, misguided, and wrong. I know what love is but I'm yet to feel it. Am I true evil, or just lost?
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[Deep Freeze] Tuesday, January 06, 2009 7:01:07 AM 
What a wonderful memory. You do look very 80's in the pic! HA!! Of course, you are much lovelier in person, but that is just this man's humble opinion.
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